Going to the chapel in june?

I think a whole lot of people are having their weddings on the original date, just with immediate family, and then having the whole celebration (with or without a symbolic ceremony) later on.

View Quoted Comment Any references on wording — we sent out save the dates pre-covid 19 but how to say “hey we’ve essentially decided to elope with close family, come celebrate with us much later on”.
We were already planning a later reception for those from his state that couldn’t come out to my state for the ceremony itself. It feels like we’re planning 2 receptions, 1 is his state and 1 in mine.
And please don’t misunderstand me, I’m not complaining or thinking ‘poor me’; I know a LOT of couples are wading through these uncharted waters. I’m just trying to pick the brains of other brides hoping they’ve thought of something that I haven’t.

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Minted has a whole line of "Postpone the date" announcements you might want to look at for wording. See:

https://www.minted.com/postpone-wedding-announcement

But you also need to figure out what you want to do. Do you want to have a ceremony, even if just symbolic, in your home state? Or do you just want to have two receptions, without a ceremony at either one?

Whatever you do, people will understand. Even those who might normally treat a ceremony after you're already married less seriously will understand that you have limited choices right now.

Hi Delilah,

I'm sorry you're having a hard time with the decision to postpone, but this is a great time to think about your Plan B. Some June brides are waiting a little bit longer to make the call, but everyone's situation is different. Have you decided on a deadline to officially postpone the larger wedding plan?

You also aren't alone right now! There are a ton of June brides talking about their COVID-19 concerns in these discussions:

- June 2020 brides: freaking out?

- June and July Brides do not stress Covid-19!!!

There are many resources on our website that may be helpful as you navigate the planning (or postponement) process: Our COVID-19 Weddings Advice Guide. You'll find articles like this one: What to Do About Your Wedding During the Coronavirus Pandemic.

Hope this helps!