Gift idea to ask my female friend to be my best woman?

What about getting a custom card on etsy, writing a nice note in it and her favorite drink, like a 6-pack/bottle whiskey/wine? I don't think there has to be a gift when you ask either, you can always just ask.

I wanted to make it special that’s not a bad idea. I saw something online like this...let me know what you think? I just have to change the wording is all.

I ordered a card off of etsy for my BMs and MoH.. So maybe something like this?
https://www.etsy.com/listing/468739886/best-woman-card-bestwoman-proposal-best
Then I put it in a little wooden box with a candle a bath bomb and a bracelet. Those are pretty generic things that women like lol but you could also get her a more personal gift, something you'd get her for a bday or Xmas.

View Quoted Comment I love that! Thank you!

Can you just take her out to lunch and ask her?

This is a new trend, it wasn't heard of when I got married last time in 2002. I'm still not sure what I think of it yet. I plan on just asking the few girls I want to stand up with me, maybe take them to lunch.

Try looking on Etsy. I purchased personalized cards that said, “Name, I can’t say I do without you.” I also had their names printed on steamless champagne flutes. Everyone loved them!

View Quoted Comment Thank you!!! This is a great idea too!