Gift for Ex Wife's wedding???

Yes, I think you should get them a gift in your situation. I would just get them something off their registry. You are still guests like any other for the most part. You could also offer to keep track of the kids during the reception if they are going to be there?

If giving them a gift wouldn't be awkward, why not? I don't think it's necessary but I don't think it would be a bad thing either.

I I think that you should buy a gift from the children to them (obviously they will know it is really from you guys but that would be a nice gesture)

I wouldn't look at keeping FH's children during the time they're away on honeymoon as a gift (maybe I'm reading that wrong)

I'd select something off their registry and call it a day.

That's what I thought....We get the kids a week before their wedding and I was thinking of having the kids make something for them that's wedding related and then we would get something off the wedding registry. We will not be able to make the wedding itself as Brian is in the Navy and will more than likely be out to sea.

We are getting married in June and FH's ex wife is most definitely not getting us a gift...lol! His kids live with us and I'm pretty sure she hates us.

I think it would be a nice gesture as others have said to get something from the kids and just have it sent to their house.

Well I should say I offered to watch the kids (which means taking time off work because they are 4+ hours away and its summer) since Brian is out to sea....I personally would consider that a gift as I have no children and the three will drive me nuts by myself lol.

My ex attended my wedding, and even gave one of the blessings. And yes, he gave a gift from our registry.

If you don't want to give a gift off the registry you could always send a bottle of wine to them to enjoy. Maybe that will make it more honeymoon-ish? lol

Since you have a good relationship then by all means send a gift. It will be greatly appreciated and further proof that you wish that person love and success. I know if my ex was still alive, he would def send a gift.

FH's ex was at a small family gathering while we were vacationing in Florida and she has always been very cordial to me. I know the history between her and FH and she is in a better place in her life right now so there is no reason for me not to be welcoming to her.

I really like the idea of you guys sending a gift "from the kids" its a nice guesture.