From Big and Extravagant to Small and Personal

This isn't really supposed to be a negative thing. My fiancé and I were talking about the budget again and all our future plans. We suddenly realized that, and this was never a bad thing to us, but that with our budget how it was we wouldn't be able to get married when we are planning to. We don't want to rush but we don't want to keep getting disappointed when we save up and get something else we need. We talked for a while about it and suddenly became very excited because we realized that we have enough family/family friends that could help fill spots of venders and decided it would be super personal. We are in the process of asking our family and friends to help and so far most of them have said yes, or to ask them again when we start officially planning. We are super excited to be able to have a more personal wedding even if we were also excited about picking a venue and having a bigger wedding.

We are definitely the type of people who would pick family over extravagance any day.