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StokedToBeASaucier
Master September 2017

Friend Upset Because Not Bridesmaid

StokedToBeASaucier, on February 19, 2016 at 11:58 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 25

A friend of mine rudely asked whether I was having her as a bridesmaid in my wedding. I said no and that I was sorry but I was only having a MOH and one BM because we want to keep the wedding party small and our wedding will be small as well. She absolutely freaked out and was like I don't see the...

A friend of mine rudely asked whether I was having her as a bridesmaid in my wedding. I said no and that I was sorry but I was only having a MOH and one BM because we want to keep the wedding party small and our wedding will be small as well. She absolutely freaked out and was like I don't see the difference between having two versus three bridesmaids but whatever it's your wedding. you do you. Advice?

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  • S&J
    Master August 2017
    S&J ·
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    I'm so over people and their self-centered attitudes

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  • StokedToBeASaucier
    Master September 2017
    StokedToBeASaucier ·
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    So am I! @S&J

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  • Beth
    Master May 2015
    Beth ·
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    I'll admit, I'm a little hurt by my one friend who's getting married this year and never asked me to be a BM (technically I don't know for sure, but her wedding's Labor Day weekend so I'm assuming I'm not one), but I would never freak out on her like that. I'll get over it, it's her decision. Your friend needs to pipe down. :/

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  • 2016beachwedding
    VIP October 2016
    2016beachwedding ·
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    Jesus I would never ask someone that , it's embarrassing

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  • R
    Just Said Yes August 2023
    Rachel ·
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    I asked my good friend to be part of the wedding in a few other ways and she said, “if you didn’t want me to be in your wedding I wish you would have just said that instead of making up a job for me” 🙃 now I need to mend a friendship, as well as find someone to do those jobs.
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