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Tori
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Friend has same Wedding Dress

Tori, on April 30, 2016 at 9:05 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 25

So I have been having some dress regret, but still love my dress. I was just browsing my Facebook feed and a friend of a friend has my exact wedding dress. This bride is not going to our wedding, but a bunch of our mutual friends that went to her wedding will be at our wedding. Would you be kinda bummed about this? What would you do? The dress is so "different" so there is no denying it's the same dress. I guess it's one of those things that makes me sad, because what if people compare us in it? #myluck


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Latest activity by Karen, on May 1, 2016 at 1:14 PM
  • MrsPettit
    Super May 2016
    MrsPettit ·
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    Nope. The problem with wedding dresses is they're rarely one of a kind. You both fell in love with the same dress -- your weddings will be completely different and the look/feel/hair/makeup and accessories will completely differentiate it.

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  • JSmith2U
    Master March 2016
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    This dress is gorgeous! Almost no one remembers the bride's dress. If it bothers you, is it possible to add an embellishment to the front to make yours different?

    Eta: the accessories that you pair with it will set you apart as well. Maybe a lovely necklace with ornate earrings?

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  • Tori
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    Tori ·
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    She looks gorgeous!


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  • Soon2BMrsB
    VIP October 2016
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    That's a bummer that she has the same dress, but I still think it's gorgeous! You look amazing in it and I love how unique it is! I wouldn't care. You should still wear it, it looks beautiful! If I attended both weddings I would never compare you two.

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  • FallforLindahl
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    It's okay! Your weddings will be so different!

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  • Holly
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    Holly ·
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    You will look gorgeous too!

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  • Mrs.D
    Master July 2016
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    Bummer!!!! But, it really is a gorgeous dress

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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    My sister-in-law managed to accidentally throw out her wedding dress (don't ask!), and bought a white sundress the day before the wedding. I was at that wedding, and had no idea until she told me years later. Seriously, people will notice how it flatters you, not compare it to someone else's dress.

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  • JSmith2U
    Master March 2016
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    And so do you! Your dress will fit better when it's been altered. You're being unfair to yourself by comparing another bride to you. You have time to make your dress your own.

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  • Old married lady
    Master September 2016
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    It definitely sucks but honestly people don't remember the dress except from pictures. I would worry about it because your dress is gorgeous!!

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  • mlw
    Master December 2016
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    I'm guessing she already had her wedding? If so, yours is just shy of a year away, most people probably won't even remember what she wore by then.

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  • AlmostNieman
    Devoted June 2016
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    Personally I would only be a bit bothered if a close friend had the same dress and we were going to each others weddings but like someone mentioned we all have different bodies, we will all have different hair and makeup and it shouldn't really matter what some other girl is wearing! That dress is so lovely theres bound to be a few brides with the same one you just don't know about them Smiley winking

    It's like sex and the city 2 when Samantha Jones and the other girl are wearing the same dress on the red carpet but they make the best out of it Smiley smile Sorry for the reference!

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  • AMW
    Master September 2016
    AMW ·
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    ^^ What Future said. If it was the same dress two weeks apart I might be sad about it, but a year is nothing. Plus if you saw me in my dress, and the model in it, they don't look like the same dress. By the time you get married nobody will remember.

    I get it though. I like to pretend that my dress is MY dress, and my ring is MY ring. Weird if I see someone in something similar...but it just goes to show you have good taste, right? Smiley smile

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  • Tori
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    Tori ·
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    Thank y'all! I guess it's just a little shocking. I think everyone believes that they won't actually know someone that has their exact dress. Yea her wedding was tonight, mine is a year from now!

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  • Tori
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    I think if it wasn't such a different dress, it wouldn't have shocked me! You could add a belt and it would change the look. I just can't do much to mine!

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  • FutureKL
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    Kind of a bummer, I would be myself too. But really, I don't think many people will remember by the time of your wedding and both of you look gorg in it, so don't stress!

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  • MrsMeyersToBe
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    She already had her wedding, I doubt anyone will remember her dress a year from now. That dress is gorgeous. Looks beautiful on you!

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  • GryffinBride
    VIP June 2016
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    I have the same dress as one of my BMs. Not really worried about it. We both look completely different in the dress. We were comparing them and laughing about it. She went with me to the salon and when I came out in the dress she still gasped and loved it on me. It's just ironic that we have the same dress. She got married in January.

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  • Shania
    Expert August 2016
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    I'd be a little bummed too, but I guarantee that they won't remember that you wore the same dress. Also I bet you'll even forget about her having the same dress!

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  • Kristy
    Master November 2015
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    I understand why you'd be bummed, but honestly.... no one will remember by the time your wedding comes around Smiley smile Plus the same dress can look very different on different people. Certain lines will hit at different places, and plus, its the whole package - hair, makeup, veil.

    You are going to look STUNNING and I highly doubt people will be comparing the 2 of you Smiley smile

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