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Friday Evening Wedding

Janell, on March 31, 2017 at 10:04 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11

So my desire is really to have a Saturday wedding. But my fiancés parents are seventh day Adventists so they most likely will not attend the wedding unless it's on a Friday or a Sunday. I'm just a little nervous about having a wedding on a Friday because I know it's not as convenient for guests or the bridal party. Advice or words of wisdom?

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Latest activity by vghjfcxgxfgdh, on April 1, 2017 at 2:47 AM
  • Mrs.HeThinksI'mBossy
    Expert May 2018
    Mrs.HeThinksI'mBossy ·
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    Can Seventh Day Adventists do anything on Friday after dusk? Doesn't that start the Sabbath? Maybe Sunday wedding. Talk to him first and see what his thoughts are. Maybe they'll be ok for one night, especially if you spin it correctly.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Well, I did one tonight; the attendance was almost 100%, the bridal party was done with photos when I got there at 5:30 and we started at 6:30 on the dot. I wouldn't worry about so much as their inflexibility to go to their own child's wedding because their (human constructed) religion tells them they can't.

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  • J
    Beginner October 2018
    Janell ·
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    @laurenb That's what I thought. The church he came from is really a rare case because there also apostolic. Yeah I will do that. Thanks girl!

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  • J
    Beginner October 2018
    Janell ·
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    @Celia That's awesome!! Congrats girl! You definitely give me hope and you're right they are human and that's very true.

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  • Teri
    VIP May 2017
    Teri ·
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    I would much rather attend a Friday night wedding than a Sunday wedding unless it's a brunch wedding/reception.

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  • Mrs.HeThinksI'mBossy
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    Mrs.HeThinksI'mBossy ·
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    @janellM you're so welcome girl. That's a first to me. Never heard of apostolic Seventh Day Adventists. Friday and Sunday weddings do have good attendance. If you do the Sunday before a holiday that may appease your concerns.

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  • J
    Beginner October 2018
    Janell ·
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    @LaurenB When I met him it was definitely a first for me too. I'm seeing that Friday evening weddings are popular. That might be a good idea to think about too

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  • FutureMrs.G
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    FutureMrs.G ·
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    My wedding is on a Friday! It's becoming much more common. Don't worry about others and pick the day that will allow them to be there, whether that's Friday or Sunday, if it's important to you.

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  • TimeLadyErika
    Master May 2017
    TimeLadyErika ·
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    Friday is the new Saturday.

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  • M
    Just Said Yes May 2017
    Mo ·
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    We are seventh day adventists too. Our wedding is Sunday evening and we have more guests RSVP than we even anticipated to be the max. People who care to be there will find a way

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  • vghjfcxgxfgdh
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    vghjfcxgxfgdh ·
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    Mine will be on a Friday and I attended two Friday weddings last year. I personally enjoyed having an excuse to take a day off of work.

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