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Dana, on April 2, 2017 at 11:37 AM

My future SIL has mentioned several times that she would like to be part of our wedding. She wants to be a bridesmaid. I explained to here that I had already chosen who would be part of my WP. My fiancé doesn't have many close friends, so he chose four friends/family and I chose four of my closest friends/family to be in our wedding. My fiancé is trying to convince me to let his sister be a BM. If I had a choice on who to add in my wedding it would be another one of my girlfriends. How do I nicely break it down that I do not want her in my wedding party? Our wedding is more than a year away and I have to deal with stuff like this.

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Kayla · on April 3, 2017 at 11:17 AM
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Don't do it! I was guilted to have my brothers now Ex girlfriend in the wedding and I regret it. It's your wedding don't let people make you feel you have to do something you don't want to do.
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Nancy · on April 3, 2017 at 7:38 PM
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@OGKathryn: I don't believe anybody thinks JJ stuttered.
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Nancy · on April 5, 2017 at 12:05 AM
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Who needs an avatar? Lots of pics to scroll thru. It's easier to find the gold bands. 5 stars usually means sensible advice despite what Richard thinks.
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