Just wondering if this is "normal" or if i'm overreacting. On Saturday my fmil and I went shopping. She doesn't have any daughters so she asked me if i can help her pick a dress. At the mall she asked me if i already have my wedding night lingerie. I told her no and i'm still looking. She then drags me into Victoria secret. She told me she want to help me pick some out and buy it for me. I felt so uncomfortable. She said her sister did that to her future daugter in law. I told her i didn't like anything, i lied, and walked out. She told me she wants to take me next month to pick some out. I don't know if i'm making a bigger deal, but i just don't like this. Is this a thing fmil do? I find it weird that she's planning on buying me lingerie for that night. LIke i don't want her to know what i will wearing. I am planning on lying to her and tell her i found some on sale. Its just weird cause its his mom. But i do feel very uncomfortable. Sorry if i'm all over the place but i'm just in shocked this happened lol. Just want to know what you ladies think about this.