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Tina
Super August 2019

First wedding nightmare

Tina, on July 4, 2019 at 5:44 AM Posted in Planning 0 8
Omg .. just woke up out of a cold sweat.. thank God that was a dream. I had a dream that I couldn't find my wedding dress. My mom (who is in heaven) put my dress "up" for me in a hotel room. She gave me a batch of keys and I had to go from room to room looking for my dress and I had to try every key on the key ring to open each hotel room😱😱😱. I NEVER found my dress. I had to put on a tiny black dress that I wore to my honey's aunt's funeral. I was hysterical. Lol. I was so mad at my mom. After 6 hours of looking for my dress I finally say we have to start this thing. It 2 hours past the start time. My photographer and videographer both don't show. I'm besides myself in tears. Lol. Omg. Way more ppl show then were invited and there is no food and no decor. I'm saying to myself forget we will order pizza I just want to marry my honey and that's all that matters. But then I can't find him😭😭😭😭. I woke up like fighting and in a cold sweat. Haha Haha. He's looking at me like I'm out of my mind but I'm soooo grateful that was just a dream🙌.

You guys having any wedding dreams lately?

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Latest activity by Tina, on July 4, 2019 at 10:24 AM
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    The wedding dreams I ever had were moreso about things I'm mostly nervous about like the photographer not capturing the moments I want
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  • Tina
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    Awe..I wrote all the pics I want to for sure get down for my photographer. She better show up. Lol
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  • Sinéad
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    Oh my goodness Tina!! That sounds like an awful nightmare!! I hope you were able to go back to sleep after it!

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  • Jennifer
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    So sorry honey.

    We all have had versions of the nightmare you just spoke of... Vendirs not showing is a common one, it's that lack of full control over something we want to be perfect- perfect for our guests but especially us...

    Let me analyze for a second 1) If your mom was a jokester that could be why the dress vanished. But, more likely it's because she wasn't there to help pick it out( I'm sorry)so it felt like it was missing a "key element"= keys and dress gone. And then the LBD worn to a funeral is kinda self explanatory.
    2) The vendors not showing is a pretty typical dream- I've had it too- and can symbolize that there's VIPeople missing and so the pix/video won't be "complete". As for food, that can sometimes be the food= love thing, and too many people showing is to counteract the few who can't be there( I've had that same dream when I've gone down the "my grandfather won't be there to walk me down the aisle" road, FH dad won't be there to see us wed after 8yrs...)
    3) Not finding FH is because you fear the loss of those you love the most.

    Try and relax and know it will all be perfect, your mom IS with you- have a small pocket for a pix sewn in, or the pix itself of her....
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  • Tina
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    Tina ·
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    Thanks soooooo much for that break down. I really appreciate that. I Went back to sleep and had two more nightmares. Lol. One where he married his ex gf for one day only and I was sooo devastated and he refused to talk about it or tell me if they consummated the marriage or not....😭😭😭 I was kicking and fighting in my sleep all night and all day today. Lol. The other was where our family had been taken hostage and the only 2 ppl that weren't captured were our teen daughter and niece. It was awful. Clearly stressed out lol about to meditate and clear my vibes. 42 days. ❤
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  • Tina
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    I did. Lol. 2 other nightmares emerged. Lol. I'm Just staying awake for the rest of the day now..lol. that's enough sleep for me 😳🤣
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  • Jennifer
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    Awh hugs babe. Yoga, colouring is wonderful, while listening to music you love is great- or watching stupid tv, like Netflix "Yummy Mummies" that's what I do. Or, being a gamer, I play "Assassin's Creed: Irigins" to murderize and get aggression out, or "The Sims" to feel in control of Something!! Or make sims look like ppl pudding me off and I murderize then- lol....

    Does FH know you've had these dreams? And what they were about? If not talk to him.

    The dreams where here loved ones are missing or in trouble are all the inner fear of losing those you love the most. Know that is common and that it's okay. Things happen, as you know, but for the most part our people are with us, even if they are in Spirit....
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  • Tina
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    I told him about the first one immediately and he told me to go back go sleep bc it was like 5am and he knows I over analyze dreams big time. The dream he married that other woman Really hurt me. Omg. I'll have to talk to him about that. She was at his aunt's funeral for some odd reason and that bothered me as well..like why is she there?? We have been together for 21 years since teens so why show up to her funeral? It made no sense. But now I'm worried that... girl I'll let it go. Yoga here I come..lol
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