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Kelly
Legend October 2022

First Dance - Before or After Dinner?

Kelly, on September 25, 2018 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Wedding Reception 40

If you are having a first dance, are you dancing before or after dinner is served? Photo by: Athena Pelton Photography Start over from the beginning here: Are you reception ready? Make sure you didn’t miss Innocent or Guilty , Over or Under , and Essential or Extra !

If you are having a first dance, are you dancing before or after dinner is served?


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Photo by: Athena Pelton Photography


Start over from the beginning here: Are you reception ready?


Make sure you didn’t miss Innocent or Guilty , Over or Under , and Essential or Extra !


40 Comments

  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Lol!! I'm the same way, I love my food!! It'll be nice to be done with it so you can enjoy the rest of the reception!

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  • Tpatb
    Master August 2019
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    We’re doing the same! I want to get it out the way!
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  • S
    Beginner April 2020
    Sarah ·
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    After! I would like everyone to have been able to enjoy their food and us too!
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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    We will most likely do it before dinner, actually this is the first time I'm hearing of them being done after dinner, that's very cool and different. But I think before dinner would work best for us.

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  • Mmssecrets
    Devoted March 2019
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    If I have it my way, before dinner. Get the nerves out of the way. If my FH has it his way, after we eat. He will be starving.
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  • Stacy
    Devoted May 2021
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    I'm keeping it traditional. Once the bridal party comes in to be introduced. We get introduced and do the first dance. Dinner will be served immediately after. We will have appitizers served before hand
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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    I feel the same!! Better to feed everyone first!

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  • FutureMrsMoore
    Savvy December 2018
    FutureMrsMoore ·
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    Before dinner and we have a special dance routine in store for our guests.

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  • OnCloudRawls
    VIP June 2019
    OnCloudRawls ·
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    I agree! We're doing our first dance after dinner as well! To me, it flows better, and guests will have the chance to enjoy their dinner.

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  • Stephanie
    Devoted October 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    I have no idea lol..it all depends on what time we decide the reception to be
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  • Lacy
    Super December 2018
    Lacy ·
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    Before. We're going right into it after being introduced into the reception.
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  • Taylor
    Devoted May 2019
    Taylor ·
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    I wasn't sure about this to begin with, but after reading through all the comments, I think we may do it before. Guests will eat plenty of appetizers during the cocktail hour while we take pictures and after our grand entrance, we'll go straight into our first dance, welcome speech, and then dinner/lunch!

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  • EllieRose
    Expert February 2020
    EllieRose ·
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    Before, we are doing a little bit of a first dance as well as a dance with all of the couples at our wedding!
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  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
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    Before, after the entrances!
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
    Colleen ·
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    I think before entrance out dance parents dance dinner and speeches.
    We have people with health conditions so I want them to be able to leave if they want to.
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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Aww that sounds so fun!! What a cute idea!

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  • Gabrielle
    Dedicated October 2019
    Gabrielle ·
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    I'm thinking, we enter, we dance and then pray and dismiss tables to the buffet. Luckily hor d'oeuvres and drinks will be served in the meantime. That should hold people over until then hopefully!

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  • Candi
    Super September 2030
    Candi ·
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    After tea but before dinner is served.

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    After dinner. We'll be starving

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  • Marlena
    Expert June 2020
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    The guest will eat while we are finishing pictures. We will eat after the 1st dance.
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