I feel so overwhlemed with finding a venue I have been to like 15 venues and either I'm expecting too much or I just cant find the venue thats perfect for us. I found like two but was turned off once they advised that I had to use their vendors for everything. Maybe I just feel like if its my day and I'm spending this much money I should have the ability to choose a DJ I know I will like and food I know for a fact will be a hit.