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Beginner August 2018

Filipino Wedding: Primary & Secondary Sponsors

Alyssa, on February 27, 2018 at 2:48 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 3
Hi, what is the best way to ask your primary and secondary sponsors to be your sponsors? Is a gift appropriate with a note? Is that too much? What kind of gift should I get? I am having 4 pairs of secondary sponsors (candle, cord, veil, coins) and 12 pairs of primary sponsors so a total of 16 pairs: 8 women and 8 men. Any help is much appreciated!

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Latest activity by Donna, on April 12, 2018 at 10:12 PM
  • Yoomie
    VIP October 2018
    Yoomie ·
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    This is like the third question of this nature that I've seen, asking about Filipino weddings. I don't even know what a primary and secondary sponsor does. For my information, can somebody clarify?
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  • Nikki
    Super May 2018
    Nikki ·
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    This is usually seen in the large Catholic Filipino weddings. The sponsors are usually older relatives or close family friends, similar to the concept of godparents (but just for the wedding). I've even heard people refer to them as godparents to try and avoid confusion. They help pay for the wedding by contributing for certain aspects & they get a place of honor at the wedding. Usually they get to walk in the processional and sit in the front reserved rows. We're skipping it since my FH isn't Catholic & his family doesn't observe the tradition.

    I actually didn't know that you ask the sponsors- I was under the impression that they offer. So this is new to me. I'd be generally interested in knowing how that works as well.

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    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Donna ·
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    I wrote cards out to all my
    sponsors! I’ve seen other people write cards and gifts. I only have 3 sets of each, so 6 pairs total. Since you have more I don’t know if you want to get a gift for each. If you do I’ve seen some simple things such as a candle, a fake flower plant, a nice statue. Things you can find at home goods. Hope this helps!
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