2 months ago I asked my aunt to me one of my BMs; she had always been there for me and helped my family through a lot of crap. But, at the time I was just noticing she would ignore me a lot. I brushed it off, and she accepted.
Now, I realized ever since I announced my pregnancy (Around the same time I asked her to be a BM) whenever she finally says something to me it's about how stupid us getting pregnant was and that we just need to put them up for adoption.
I went to lunch the other day with her and my mom, and she kept ragging on me about I need to accept my 'mistake' and get rid of the kid, it isn't mine until it's born and legally in my name, blah blah blah. I left in tears! I called FH and he said to "fire" her, that if she's constantly hurting me she shouldn't be honored. But, my mom says it'll be rude to do that.
I wouldn't find someone to replace her or anything, I'd just relieve her of her duties. Is it rude, and should I just hope she'll be nicer closer to the day?
