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Fiance(e) Friday! Yin & Yang: are you and your SO similar or opposites?

Kelly, on October 12, 2018 at 10:05 AM

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Do opposites really attract? Or do your similarities bring you closer together? In your relationship - do your differences perfectly complement each other and balance you both out, or were you looking for someone similar to you? Are you and your fiance(e) more similar or are they the yin to your...

Do opposites really attract? Or do your similarities bring you closer together? In your relationship - do your differences perfectly complement each other and balance you both out, or were you looking for someone similar to you?

Are you and your fiance(e) more similar or are they the yin to your yang?


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Come and share more about you and your fiance(e) in these discussions: Are you and your fiance a match made in the stars and What does your fiance(e) do that drives you crazy !

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  • JustKidding
    VIP April 2018
    JustKidding ·
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    I think we are a perfect balance for each other. We are alike in a lot of ways, we have short attention spans, we're really goofy, we love dogs, we politically the same, our views on religion (or lack) is the same. But then we are different in that he is very empathetic and I am not. He's very family oriented, when I have none and barely know how to deal with family. He's very loving and touchy, when I tend to be mood, and hands off. At the end, we meet in the middle and it's perfect.

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  • Gabrielle
    Devoted September 2020
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    Opposites!
    He loves fishing and being out doors, I love being home! He is strong willed and stubborn, I’m stubborn but “softer”, is that makes sense. He’s a meat and potatoes guy, I need leafy greens. He is a night owl, I’m an early bird. I’m more of a loner, he’s a social butterfly. He likes peace and quiet, I need noise.
    At the end of the day we have he same values and goals in life and have plenty of things we enjoy together.
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  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    Lol, love it!! Seems like the perfect balance!

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  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    That's awesome!! It seems that you all have a great balance Smiley smile

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  • Kelly
    Legend October 2022
    Kelly ·
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    Wow, what a story! I smiled the whole time reading it, amazing how life works!! I agree, sometimes have someone who is opposite can work out so well! So glad you reconnected Smiley smile

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    Dedicated May 2019
    Dana ·
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    Complete opposites! I am dark with brown hair and brown eyes. He is light with blonde hair and blue eyes. He’s more outgoing and I tend to be more quiet. He’s more passionate, i tend to go with the flow.
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  • Tpatb
    Master August 2019
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    Similar interests and attitudes..different personalities lol sometimes it works ...sometimes we bump heads lol but it always works out!
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  • Hannah
    Devoted July 2019
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    Both. Personality wise, we are the same. Have the same thoughts and mindsets. As far as other things, completely different but works out perfectly because we just trade off and are both happy.
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  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    Love it!! Seems like the perfect balance! Smiley smile

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  • Kelly
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    Kelly ·
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    Love the contrast of coloring! Seems like you all balance each other out well!

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  • Stephanie
    Devoted October 2019
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    We’re practically the same person but at the same time we’re totally different
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  • Amber
    Beginner August 2021
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    I’d like to say we are a mixture but I think we lean more in the side of being similar to each other. We both can be quite shy why it comes to meeting each other’s families but when it comes to life styles we have our differences. But he is my weirdo and I love him for that.
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  • Alyrae
    Super February 2020
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    We r the same in a lot of ways .... we share the same sense of humor and we r both stubborn.... we both get crabby easily .... especially when we r hungry ..... so I say we r vary similar
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  • Lafuturaseñora
    Devoted April 2019
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    We are more similar than we are different.. we literally say the same answer or same joke or same sentence all the time still. There are a lot of things that are different but we each balance it out. I help him watch what’s in front of him and he helps me keep my head out of the clouds..:-)
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    Future Mrs. Polar Bear ·
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    We have similarities, but defiantly some opposites, as well. I think we balance and compliment each other well.

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    We're alike in all the ways that matter, sense of humor, values, taste in music and movies. We are TOTAL opposites in the political area, but we show each other respect and don't fight about it. We both realize each has the right to their own opinions. I joke that since he doesn't vote I don't have to worry about him cancelling mine out!! We both even love the same style of homes and what furnishings they should have.

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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
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    We're both theatre actors who love the same sports teams and a lot of the same nerdy things and are kind of introverted.
    It can get a little worrisome how alike we are - we actually were finishing each other's sentences within a week of meeting. (Granted, that was a sports conversation, but... it happened.)

    On other things we are very different, but I would say we are far more similar than not.

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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
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    We're very similar in a lot of ways, and I think that is what makes us work so well together.

    I've dated people in the past who were hardly like me, and I left them all. I could never imagine being apart from my fiance. Smiley ring

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