My fiance' and I have a long distance relationship; I live in the Midwest and he lives in the deep South. We met this way and it has worked. This is both of our 2nd marriage; no children. Our wedding day is 10.10.20 and we've been planning everything long distance. We have excellent communication, talking texting and doing video chat at least 4-5x daily. He plans on moving to the Midwest so he's going to come here and stay for a few months while we shop for a house together. This has always been the plan. Once COVID happened, our plans has been halted. He wants a courthouse wedding instead and I kinda agree, considering it's hard to continue forward without a solid outlook on what's to come. I'm angry bc week after week I keep asking "exactly when do you plan to travel here"? I want him to be with me during this time. His job is completly remote so I don't have the flexibility to travel for an extended time like he does. We got into a big fight last night bc he said my attitude is I don't care about him contracting COVID and putting his life in danger; I can't be patient and wait. His plan of action is wait it out for another 2 weeks to see if cases have gone up now that the country is opening. I totally disagree. I don't see things getting better anytime soon but we must make do. I say he needs to fly here now so we can do our courthouse wedding and get on with our lives. I can't even schedule a photographer, courthouse slot or even buy a dress, considering he's giving me nothing to go on. He says I'm a spoiled brat and selfish. I feel stuck!! Please give your honest opinion bc I'm so ready to give up right now!!
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