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Nahnie2552
Dedicated October 2020

Fiance' won't travel - Your opinion appreciated!

Nahnie2552, on May 13, 2020 at 6:33 AM

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My fiance' and I have a long distance relationship; I live in the Midwest and he lives in the deep South. We met this way and it has worked. This is both of our 2nd marriage; no children. Our wedding day is 10.10.20 and we've been planning everything long distance. We have excellent communication,...
My fiance' and I have a long distance relationship; I live in the Midwest and he lives in the deep South. We met this way and it has worked. This is both of our 2nd marriage; no children. Our wedding day is 10.10.20 and we've been planning everything long distance. We have excellent communication, talking texting and doing video chat at least 4-5x daily. He plans on moving to the Midwest so he's going to come here and stay for a few months while we shop for a house together. This has always been the plan. Once COVID happened, our plans has been halted. He wants a courthouse wedding instead and I kinda agree, considering it's hard to continue forward without a solid outlook on what's to come. I'm angry bc week after week I keep asking "exactly when do you plan to travel here"? I want him to be with me during this time. His job is completly remote so I don't have the flexibility to travel for an extended time like he does. We got into a big fight last night bc he said my attitude is I don't care about him contracting COVID and putting his life in danger; I can't be patient and wait. His plan of action is wait it out for another 2 weeks to see if cases have gone up now that the country is opening. I totally disagree. I don't see things getting better anytime soon but we must make do. I say he needs to fly here now so we can do our courthouse wedding and get on with our lives. I can't even schedule a photographer, courthouse slot or even buy a dress, considering he's giving me nothing to go on. He says I'm a spoiled brat and selfish. I feel stuck!! Please give your honest opinion bc I'm so ready to give up right now!!

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  • Miss2Mrs2020
    Dedicated October 2020
    Miss2Mrs2020 ·
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    I get it, I do! It’ll all work out *fingers crossed*
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  • Nahnie2552
    Dedicated October 2020
    Nahnie2552 ·
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    Hey ladies! Everything has worked out. He's flying here next weekend and we're both very happy. He's nervous to travel but we love each other and know he'll be safe by following all precautions. Thank you for your opionions and words of encouragement. We decided on a courthouse wedding for now; just he and I.
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