Fiancé straying..

Um... No. WTF?

Dump him.

Honestly, I would not marry him. Maybe you should figure things out and postpone the wedding until then.

Omg Ashley I'm so sorry! Did you try to talk to him about everything?

WTF!! Abosuletly NO!

How do you know nothing physical happened at this meet up at the bar?

Nothing may have happened but the intent was there. I wouldn't be able to marry someone who wanted to be with someone else.

Absolutely not. Whether or not anything "happened" this is cheating in my book. And I could never trust him after this. I would call it off. Dodge that bullet!

You need to postpone. At least, give yourself sometime to figure what you want. Your emotions are probably all over the place, and you are worried about what people will think. None of that matters! Cancel/postpone the wedding and go to counseling. Then, figure out if your relationship is worth saving. I am so sorry you are going through this.

Umm. No.

I have too much respect for myself to forgive something like that. He will do it again. You deserve better.

ETA: If it were me, all of his shit would already be on the driveway

*cue Beyonce's "Irreplacable"*

Would you rather wait until you're married to get divorced?

He's cheating. Whether anything happened or not, he intended and wanted something to happen.

Im really sorry this is happening. You deserve better than that.

This is a joke right???

OH HELL TO THE NO. I will drop his behind.

Postpone the wedding. Go to counseling. I'm so sorry. Hugs.

I would not. I wouldn't be able to look at him the same ever again. I've been cheated on and lied to by too many guys to deal with it for the rest of my life.

I'd kick his ass to the curb so fast

He's talked to other women and met them at bars, and put up PUBLIC ADS for oral sex.

Hell yes, I would be long gone. He SAYS nothing happened. I don't believe it. They always say nothing happened.

Yeah that's a big nope for me. I don't think I could ever trust FH again if he did that.

I wouldn't marry him because the trust would be gone.

I'm so sorry this has happened to you! Honestly, I couldn't marry someone who would do that. Postpone at the very least.. You owe it to yourself to get answers and figure this out before you commit to someone who obviously can't or won't commit to you right now.