My FH is driving me crazy. He got upset at me a few days ago because I was texting him to talk about the wedding stuff I was thinking, and about venues that I liked. He got upset because I “never talk about it when we’re together”. Well, today was a perfect example of why.
We were in the car on a long drive today, and I pulled out my planning book, and mentioned an idea I had for a frost your own cupcake table, instead of trying to frost them myself (I hate frosting, so I never really got very good at it). He told me that he didn’t really care, he’s not particularly creative, and that I should just Decide on stuff and come to him to ask “yes or no?” I told him he couldn’t have it both ways. He can’t get mad at me for not talking about it when we’re together and then completely dismiss the conversation when I try to have it in person. He’s driving me crazy!
Both of my bridesmaids are out of state and I don’t really have friends here (I moved here 3 years ago, but I’m terrible at making friends as an adult D
. He told me I should make new friends and bounce ideas off of them instead, and I told him that even if I did make a new friend right now I’d barely know them and I certainly wouldn’t trust them to help me plan my wedding. He doesn’t seem to realize or care that it’s actually kind of a big deal for me. It feels like I’m wasting my time, planning a nice wedding.
