Dani
Savvy July 2023

Family issues

Dani, on April 13, 2021 at 11:41 PM

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So my parents doesn’t approve me to getting married in July and my fiancé said he doesn’t care wat they say cause he’s still gonna do the wedding no matter what! So can my parents stop me from marrying him and force me to stay at their place and call the cops on my fiancé for taking me away from my...
So my parents doesn’t approve me to getting married in July and my fiancé said he doesn’t care wat they say cause he’s still gonna do the wedding no matter what! So can my parents stop me from marrying him and force me to stay at their place and call the cops on my fiancé for taking me away from my parents?? I am tired of them treating me like I’m jail and I can’t do stuff cause I can do stuff but I need alil pushed to start. I need advice what to do cause I really don’t need any drama and stress from my parents on my wedding day......

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  • Dani
    Savvy July 2023
    Dani ·
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    He doesn’t have credit card but I do and my credit is good and his credit is ok but not as good I guess but he been through a lot and I am proud of him wat he been doing cause I helped him through it cause if he didn’t have me he will probably be in that situation
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  • J
    Dedicated June 2021
    Jessica ·
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    Hey Dani,
    I'm going to take a different approach. You've mentioned that you have a lot on your chest and really need someone to talk to. As so many of us have mentioned, we're seriously worried about your decision to move forward with the wedding. Not that you're not worthy of love or marriage, but that this man of yours is taking you for a ride. The fact that you're questioning your decision to marry him so quickly is a reflection of your subconscious telling you to run.

    If you feel comfortable, please reach out to the National Domestic Abuse Hotline. They're accessibly both by phone and email. Perhaps they can shed a new perspective on this for you. More info can be found at https://www.thehotline.org/

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  • Dani
    Savvy July 2023
    Dani ·
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    I’m just scared wat my parents will do if I move in with him and marry him now cause they see a lot cons more then pros! He’s not domestic abuse!
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  • Jennifer
    Dedicated August 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    Hi Dani,
    Are you able to talk to a therapist? It might help to get some outside perspective on the situation, and the relationship in general.

    Also, have you ever lived by yourself before? That might be a good first step from moving out of your parents, before moving in with someone. How long have you two been dating? I think people are right to be concerned, based off the information here, but obviously we don’t know the whole story. A therapist can really help with this situation. I wish you the best.
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  • Elizabeth
    Super June 2021
    Elizabeth ·
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    Based on what we know here, I would highly recommend you not marry this man and instead reach out to the hotline or a therapist. These people can help you navigate the situation better than the internet can
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  • Kk
    Devoted October 2021
    Kk ·
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    Why are you rushing to get married? If you love him so much and know that you want to be with him forever, why not take the time to lay the foundation it takes to have a successful marriage?
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  • MIWM
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    I am very confused. You are a grown adult. If you love that Man Marry him!

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  • Dani
    Savvy July 2023
    Dani ·
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    I really do love him if I didn’t I wouldn’t say yes to him when he proposed to me 😀
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  • K
    Expert September 2021
    Ka-Rina ·
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    What can they possibly do? I have been trying to understand this and not sure I get it
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  • Dani
    Savvy July 2023
    Dani ·
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    My parents can call the cops but it’s kinda stupid cause they won’t do anything cause I’m an adult and I don’t need to stay there.
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  • K
    Expert September 2021
    Ka-Rina ·
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    Exactly. Why would they even call the cops? What would they say?
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  • Dani
    Savvy July 2023
    Dani ·
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    Idk if they will call the cops but I’m just scared if they do cause I wanna leave and be with my fiancé
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  • K
    Expert September 2021
    Ka-Rina ·
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    You can be with your fiancé. There’s absolutely nothing they can do - maybe lock you up in the basement but they’d face jail for that...
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