My best friend from high school is my MoH and is seriously giving me regret, for the longest time now. From the beginning, she's been the least communicative with looking for dresses or anything wedding related and when I would ask her for her help with anything, I'd ask her later how things are going or if she found anything and without a care, she'd say she forgot. Me and a couple of my girls went to a shop today and felt like we FINALLY found a dress. I showed my MoH to see if she can go and try it on at a location closer to her.
Without hesitation she said she didn't want to. She's pretty top heavy but after I explained about alterations and adding cups and at least asking the stylist if she'd be able to make it work, she still refused to at least try. She still hasn't been very helpful with what she thinks she might feel more comfortable in so I feel like I've just been wasting time. I'm not sure what to do. Has anyone ever demoted someone or had someone in their wedding party stand down?? If so, what was your reason and how did it end??