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Beatrice, on January 9, 2017 at 11:01 AM

Why a Honeyfund is rude: -you're asking people for money -the website takes a percentage -people can't afford a vacation so why should they pay for yours -it's tacky -poems don't make it cute Asking for cash: -it's tacky and rude -guests know how to buy gifts -just don't make a registry -you can...

Why a Honeyfund is rude:

-you're asking people for money

-the website takes a percentage

-people can't afford a vacation so why should they pay for yours

-it's tacky

-poems don't make it cute

Asking for cash:

-it's tacky and rude

-guests know how to buy gifts

-just don't make a registry

-you can always upgrade something

-living together doesn't equate to not needing up upgrades

-why should someone give you cash

-if you're trying to save money by collecting others, reevaluate why your wedding is so expensive

-have the wedding you can afford.

-poems don't make it cute

Self catering

-botulism

-glitter covered slaves

-botulism

-potlucks are gross

-health risks

-stress

Dry/cash bar (only okay with AA or religion)

-not everyone is an alcoholic

-supply or beware of drunk drivers from bootleg

-thank your guests don't punish them

Friendors:

No one wants to work

They aren't qualified.

No one cares as much as you do

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Savvy January 2017
Jess · on January 17, 2017 at 5:32 PM
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We asked for money, but no one thought it was rude since we explained that we may be moving to another state/country and they all understand.
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Champion November 2054
Jacks · on January 17, 2017 at 6:39 PM
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@Jess, no-one told you they thought it was rude. People definitely thought it.
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Super September 2017
Ms.G · on January 17, 2017 at 7:23 PM
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BUMP!
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Super September 2017
Ms.G · on January 17, 2017 at 7:25 PM
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Can it please be added in here to not put in your invitations that your not including kids??? The acceptance of this incredibly rude decision is spreading like herpes
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Dedicated November 2017
Shawn & Kelly · on January 17, 2017 at 9:02 PM
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This isn't to start an argument, just to hopefully help those who aren't serving alcohol feel ok with their decision. I just spent the last 2 hours Googling wedding etiquette regarding serving alcohol. Basically every article, blog, etc I read stated that you are not at all obligated to serve alcohol. They also said if you do serve not for it to be a cash bar as that is against etiquette. But deciding to have a dry reception was no where stated as against etiquette or being rude, tacky, etc to your guests. Here is one of the last ones I read and just thought I would share: http://invitationsbyajalon.com/blog/wedding-etiquette-a-dry-wedding/ .
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