My MOH told me she needed a list of people that we would like to have at our engagement party. After telling her that it wasnt necessary, she informed me that its her southern tradition and that its happening no matter what haha. FH and I gave her a list of 20. I overhear her and my BM say its at a restuarant but i dont know where or when its planned for. What do i need to do? What do i wear? I read on here that some people gave out favors. I want to contribute in some way but i dont know what that is. Any advice ladies?