Engagement Party Disaster!

Was she raised in a barn? Who does that.

Let it go, she's not worth the time and energy you're spending on her. Clearly she has issues, and she doesn't need to become someone you worry about.

"Jealousy's the ugliest trait".

I would have punched her in the face!

I think your FH should talk with his friend about his wife's behavior and see if it was just a random thing or if this happens a lot.

I can say that I have been introduced as "The one who tamed FH" quite a bit.

I have learned to let it roll off my shoulders - although it pissed my FH off a lot.

Ill bet her or someone close to her dated FH once upon a time...

anyway i would invite her to the wedding be the bigger person and embarrass the shit out of her there

My MOH's husband thought that as well but FH honestly has never dated her nor anyone that she knows. She was also making fun of FH as well! She was calling him an old man and saying he "hangs out with young people to make himself feel young". They are all the same age except me, im 5 years younger than him, so i got the point that the comment was about me. I found out from my sister that before we even got to the party she was asking "who is this girl anyways". It just really hurts that someone would intentionally go out of there way to ruin a night like that. TRUST ME, i thought of punching that bitch in the face, especially after having 2 margartitas but i didnt want to give her any ammo or seem like a bridezilla to anyone to even begin to justify what she was doing. Thank you guys for the support, im just sad that when i look back on that day its kinda overshadowed by a crazy bitch i dont even know.

Agreed, invite Nick and make it clear that his troll wife is not invited. I agree with OTW that she probably wouldn't let him go, but at least that decision is in his court. Maybe this will teach his wife to behave like an adult.

If it just happened I would wait before pulling the trigger though, maybe she was having a bad night and took it out on you. Maybe she is super embarrassed and trying to figure out how to save her face, just giving her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe Nick has told her she has to apologize on her own or he'll be attending alone. If, when the time comes to send the STDs and still nothing from her then yes, she's obviously a total b*tch and won't be anywhere near your wedding!

Maybe it's not that someone she knows dated FH but that she wishes she could and is angry that he isn't giving her a thought and super jealous that you are the one who got him. At any rate, I still wouldn't want her anywhere near my day.