Eloping and postponing big Wedding- will it still be special?

Because of the current situation my FH and I decided to elope just the two of us, an officiant, and a photographer. I just want to marry this man already. After 1 1/2 years of planning we don’t want to wait. The wedding was originally 5/30/20 now postponed to 5/8/21. I am excited to marry him and really I know that’s all that matters. But I can’t help worry that if we are already married no one will care about the wedding day. That I will miss out on my bridal shower and bachelorette party, and the excitement of the day will be gone. Did anyone else elope and have the wedding later? Did you miss out on these events? I’ve been planning and dreaming of this day for so long, I really don’t want to lose out on those memories. Let me know your thoughts.