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Jasmine
Just Said Yes May 2022

Dress Dilemma

Jasmine, on January 3, 2020 at 5:46 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 166

These are my final two gown selections. Each very different and leaving my very torn. The ball gown gave me "the feels" when I put it on. It is simple, but I liked that about it and want to purchase an antique looking belt. However, my father thinks it looks like a prom dress and is plain, my best...

These are my final two gown selections. Each very different and leaving my very torn. The ball gown gave me "the feels" when I put it on. It is simple, but I liked that about it and want to purchase an antique looking belt. However, my father thinks it looks like a prom dress and is plain, my best friends also thought it was a little plain for me (but support my choice). The lace piece, I also loved because it would compliment my body shape, wedding theme (rustic, romantic), and venue (an old cotton mill). Also, THAT TRAIN! However, no "the feels" (I still loved it though). This dress has the support of my friends and father.How would you choose?! I love them both for different reasons and will reason with myself until my edges fall out.side-by-sidecfb_1343341.jpgside-by-sidecfb_1343343.jpgexcuse my expressioncfb_1343345.jpgball gown side viewcfb_1343347.jpg



166 Comments

  • Jess
    Expert October 2019
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    I personally loooove the lace one and think it compliments you so so well! at the end of the day only you can know how you truly feel and which you wanna walk down in!!
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  • K
    Just Said Yes December 2020
    Krupa ·
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    Lace! You have a great body and it looks so nice on you! I kind of feel like the other one makes you look like a little girl 😬 :-/
    Plus the place looks unique!
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  • Erin
    Just Said Yes February 2020
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    The lace one looks AMAZING on you but the ball gown one is gorgeous as well! It doesn’t look prom like and I think you should go with the dress that gave you the feelings. It won’t look plain when you have accessories on!
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  • B
    Just Said Yes August 2024
    Beth ·
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    The lace one!! Wow!!!
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  • Alejandra
    Super November 2021
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    Definitely go with the ball gown! There’s nothing that replaces “the feels!”
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  • Danica
    Beginner October 2020
    Danica ·
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    Your dress should give you the feeling. Do the ball gown, it’s gorgeous!
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  • Courtney
    Expert July 2020
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    I think you look beautiful In both! I honestly love the design on the lace one but can definitely understand how the ball gown may give you that feel. My recommendations would be maybe try on more ball gowns if you haven’t already with lace or more design if you’re loving the lace dress because of the design OR try on a veil with the current ball gown with more lace or design to see how that looks! At the end of the day , choose whatever gives you that feeling and makes you feel beautiful.
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  • Rachel
    Savvy May 2020
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    The ballgown is pretty but DAMN that lace train is amazing!!!!
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  • Mson
    Savvy February 2020
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    Girl!!!!!! These are both amazing!!!! They are stunning!!! The ball gown is timeless and chic and beautiful especially from the back. The fitted one is beautiful and sexy but honestly how you feel when you put the dress on is going to show on your day so you need to wear the one that sweeps you off your own feet lol!!! But either way you are going to win. Take time and don’t rush and then go back and try them on again if you need to!
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  • Mikayla
    Savvy October 2021
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    You pull them both off so well. However I do agree that going with what gives you The Feels is the one to go with. Your heart/gut will lead you.
    (Personally I think the Ballgown is Bridal dress more than the other one)
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  • Sage
    Just Said Yes August 2021
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    I love the ballgown!! it’s so elegant and ethereal. super flowy. i think it will fit your theme very well & flatters your figure
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    When you imagine yourself at your wedding, which dress are you wearing? That’s how I made my decision and never regretted it! Once I started visualizing myself on my wedding day and always seeing the same dress, I knew that was the one
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  • B
    Just Said Yes July 2021
    Becky ·
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    Go with the one your gut is telling you!

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  • Mackenzie
    Beginner August 2020
    Mackenzie ·
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    The first oneeeee 😍😍😍
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  • Samantha
    Just Said Yes September 2021
    Samantha ·
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    Girl! You are going to make one beautiful bride!
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  • Mayte
    Savvy September 2021
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    Both are beautiful. You look amazing in both but I love ball gown white dress. You can definitely dress it up and with a veil omg you will look stunning. Especially if you have “the feels” for the ballgown go for it. You are so beautiful! Congratulations!!!
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  • Priscilla
    Savvy October 2021
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    My gosh you look stunning in both! But if I had to choose ( and we must ... ^_^) I would choose the ball gown. You absolutely look regal and royal!!! But, I when I chose my gown I chose the dress that made me feel like a bride. That feeling is indescribable. I knew I found the “one” when you just don’t want to take it off —whichever one that maybe for you. Either way, both gowns are absolutely gorgeous and you can’t go wrong. Congratulations!!!
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  • Alex
    Savvy May 2021
    Alex ·
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    I love the ballgown on you!
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  • Jessica
    Just Said Yes August 2022
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    You look beautiful in both! Go with your heart!
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  • Jeanette
    Beginner May 2021
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    Ball gown for sure!!
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