“Dream Wedding”

View Quoted Comment I totally know what you mean and that’s exactly how I picked my dress!! I searched winter wedding, and then kind of narrowed it down to burgundy so then I searched burgundy wedding colors. I recently realized I should add blue because of the windows in the venue so I added that to the search!! I think I like burgundy, dusty blue, and a darker blue (but not navy).

View Quoted Comment Right! But I’m so bad with that! I changed my major on college a few times I knew I wanted to work around children though! So in two weeks I’ll be graduating with my bachelors in education! lol I went from biology to social work to my now major! I usually pray for guidance if that makes since & go with my heart! Hopefully I can do the same put ideas together and pray I find the perfect idea from my selections of things!

View Quoted Comment That will be so beautiful in April! I love how it’ll flow the weather and venue! 💕

View Quoted Comment Beautiful wedding colors! I love red and black but black isn’t in my color scheme being that it’s my go to color for almost everything in my closet! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

View Quoted Comment Chile! Don’t me started on cold majors! I changed mine a few times also! We for sure got the date and season down! We both love October and the atmosphere of it! I knew I love rustic but elegant & romantic & bohemian so how can I have all four I thought? What if I do very flowery greenery but rustic romantic touch for ceremony and do it outside because I love the vibe of an outside and indoor wedding I’ve been to both style weddings! And for the reception which could be indoor I can do elegant and romantic type! I have soooooo many ideas and things I’m so happy thing not October 2020 because it’ll be all over! I know by next October I want to have a exact detail of my wedding because I like things to be in order and on time before hand! Pinterest is my best friend for now! I don’t want to add friends or family in my mix because I don’t want them to tell me what they like to dislike and it becomes everybody else wedding and not mine you know?

View Quoted Comment Blue accents with a lot of colors it’s like a black! And I love how any shade can compliment any color! Beautiful color choices! We sound like we in ten Same boat with colors I thought about replacing one color here and adding this there or just adding a color with out replacing 🤷🏾‍♀️ Might as well have a rainbow 🤣🤣

View Quoted Comment I haven’t sent a date yet but for sure it will be February 2021 , and I love rose gold so I even set up a board on Pinterest of a rose gold theme for the wedding and I haven’t change my mind since lol ..but these are my color and I feel it goes well in the month of February because of valentine day

View Quoted Comment You will get that feeling when its the right one. Have fun with it.

I was never that little girl that dreamed of my wedding. When my now husband and I decided to get married, we planned it based on our budget and what things we liked. We toured several venues and chose one that we both felt fit into our budget and was beautiful. We chose our date because there was something about it we liked, etc. For things like colors, I would think it's best to choose the venue and then the colors later to ensure they coordinate. I originally chose blue and green (my and husband's favorite colors) and then my SIL pointed out they would clash with the venue space, so we changed them. The best advice, I feel, is to just look at multiple options and see what you two like.

View Quoted Comment Colors are absolutely the hardest part!! There are sooo many that I love!

I’ve always had an idea of what I wanted my wedding to be like. The colors have been picked for years lol. It’s both our favorite colors (blush and royal blue). I knew I wanted a summer wedding which meant I needed an indoor event. It’s over 100 degrees in the summer so I didn’t want everyone and myself sweating. I would suggest choosing your venue first that can help you decide what vision you would want (glam, rustic, etc) and put together a binder. I’m on Pinterest so I’m constantly saving stuff but I tend to overwhelm myself cause I’ll keep saving more and more so it makes it harder to narrow down. So I take the pins I really like and print them off to put in my binder.

View Quoted Comment Love them! Especially for Valentine’s Day perfect colors!

View Quoted Comment Thanks great advice! We are trying to decide indoor or outdoor that’s where we starting from!

View Quoted Comment Yes! And so many shades and everything! I love it! Lol

View Quoted Comment Oohh! Yes I love the binder idea I need to get me printer and create one it’ll be nice to save too so show my future daughters I can even save pictures in it from wedding etc.

From the beginning i knew what i wanted which was a fairytale wedding. He just wanted2get married. Then we knew we wanted a royalty wedding cuz we love those colors so at 1st it was burgundy and gold now its purple and gold.

View Quoted Comment I made decisions chose either indoor or outdoor based on the season ..because I can’t be sweating on my day !😂😂 so in Florida between November-February is cold so that’s when I’m doing my wedding lol

View Quoted Comment Girl I’m from Louisiana it’s bipolar here. can’t case it I’m hoping & praying! Usually October is perfect I won’t sweat or be cold! Just going October 2021 be that way 🥴

I’m the same way... I was never that girl that dreamed about her fairytale wedding or had a Pinterest wedding board board since I was 15 lol... it just wasn’t my thing. One strategy that has worked for me is making a Pinterest board and saving everything that catches my eye: makeup, dresses, color schemes, decor, etc. I revisit the board every so often and delete the images that I no longer like or feel would work for me. Anything that lasts more than a few months is probably something that I’ll end up using. One thing that all my vendors have told me so far: once you order your dress, stop looking at other dresses. Once you book your venue, stop looking at other venues. There will always be a dress, venue, color, shoe, etc. that your mind might trick you into thinking is “better.” Just go with your instincts and what catches YOUR eye!

Hi! Congrats on your engagement! My ideas changed because my mom and mother n law I wanted to get married at City Hall in San Francisco but they had other plans for me. I say go with what you feel DONT let anyone decide for you not even us lol my dream went away by asking others opinion