Drama

This is kind of a rant and I️m hoping I do not get any negative comments about myself... my sister who is 16 is my maid of honor, lately she’s been in her rebellious stage she has her nose pierced and a regular tongue piercing and a “snake” eye piercing which is across the tip of the tongue and she also is on anti depressants and smokes weed all the time(walks around like a zombie). My fiancée is an Egyptian who is Muslim and some of his family from over seas will be attending our wedding. Egyptian weddings are very classy and elegant and everyone dresses to impress, I kindly told my mom that my sister can’t wear a loop nose ring and can’t have the tip of the tongue piercing since it’s huge and you can see I️t when she talks and that his family is going to be so taken back since they know she is so much younger than me and has all this craziness going on. Also, aside from my Mom meeting his parents this is the first time all of our immediate family will be meeting eachother so insert nerves lol. Aside from his family possibly thinking this, I had told my fiancée that I hate the loop in the nose anyway and he had said that he knows him and his family will feel some way. My mom and sister are offended that I told them this but I can’t help but think if someone told me to change my nose ring or change my nail color or just about anything I would have just done I️t.... I️m sorry if I look like an awful person I really am not I just needed to vent