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Devoted September 2019

Does anything make you nervous about your wedding?

Caitlyn, on September 6, 2019 at 4:04 PM Posted in Planning 0 17

For me it's weather and hoping I love the pictures (because I wasn't thrilled with our engagement shoot).

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Latest activity by Amanda, on September 7, 2019 at 8:29 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    Both of those, plus the whole speaking in front of 150 people thing.

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  • Sara
    Expert February 2020
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    Weather makes me really nervous. It's hit or miss on snow and ice here in February.

    I'm also nervous about a friend I invited drinking to much and causing a scene. She did at the work Christmas party and fell three times..
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    Both of those as well, also concerned about some guests drinking way too much. Main reason we're having very limited alcohol.

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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
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    Standing up in front of everyone for the ceremony. Not too concerned about the weather since both the ceremony and reception are inside.

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    The timing of getting set up before the wedding, and the timing of us having to clean up after. I worry about that the most. Other than that i'm not at all worried about the ceremony, the pictures, DJ or reception. i'm fairly organized so i'm good...I realize stuff can go wrong though, and i'm usually able to go with the flow

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  • Izzykern
    Super April 2021
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    For me, definitely standing up in front of everyone during the ceremony (we are making it short and sweet but still a fear)
    second would probably be making sure the timeline goes according to plan and all vendors pull through wonderfully... but I do have a wedding planner so she will take over month of and especially day of Smiley smile
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  • Brae
    VIP September 2019
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    Weather for sure! I'm hoping it's not super hot. I'm also worried about all of my vendors coming through. They haven't given me any reason to worry, but it's weird to only talk to someone a handful of times or less over a year and a half and have 100% faith they'll all come together well. Plus I am a huge worrier. I worry always so I'm not surprised I feel that way.
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    I agree to both as well. I just also hope that everyone likes the food lol. Hell, in all honesty the whole damn thing makes me nervous Smiley xd We have yet to take our engagement photos.

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  • Michaela
    Super May 2020
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    I'm mostly worried about too many people showing up lol. I know people will RSVP no, but what if I'm the 1 in 1000 bride who has 100% rsvp yes rate ?? Also a little worried about timing and the flow of things since my ceremony is 20 minutes away from hotels and reception town

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I'm nervous the guests are going to have a bad time and think they attended a crap wedding! I've been trying so hard to make sure my guests are well taken care of!

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  • Devoted August 2021
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    My fear exactly! Mostly I worry about my family’s scrutiny. Like will it be good enough? I worry about guests being bored during the reception the most. Have yet to find the right DJ, and I’m a bit mortified.
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  • Amanda
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    The two main things are the weather being cooperative and making sure I walk down the aisle without falling/tripping haha

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  • Bridget
    Devoted October 2019
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    The weather- but our photog said the best way to have nice weather is to invest in clear umbrellas for photos then you won’t need them. 😂🤣. ( he does have them too for our use)

    Im also really worried about the best man speech. I don’t really know his brother that well, my fh doesn’t hang out with him much but he felt like he had to have his only brother as bm. He’s questioned his decision multiple times even though I told him in the beginning to think about it before asking. His brother has a tendency to get drunk and be a jerk- he’s lost his liscense twice to DUIs and his girlfriend is crazy. They get in crazy fights she’s put out a restraining order on him and had him put in jail but now they’re back together- she’s clawed his face and chest leaving marks those kind of fights not just arguments. He’s a real wild card I’m not a fan of and I’m afraid of what he might say.
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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
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    Being caught on 📹 giving someone “the business” because they: aren’t in place or doing something so totally ridiculous that I have to “give it to them with both barrels”.

    Oh, and people meeting and hooking up with people that they shouldn’t and then someone being mad at me because it didn’t work out.
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  • Renee
    Super October 2020
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    Honestly, not having enough money by the end of it all. We found an amazing venue with everything included and we make payments each month towards it. Then we pay off what we have left right before we get married. I'm worried we wont have enough money for the extra stuff we'll need. We should be ok but it's definitely something that makes me nervous.
    I'm also worried I wont get all the pictures I want or I wont like them. The photographer is included with the package and his pictures looked good but still...it's something I worry about
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  • Samantha
    Expert October 2019
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    I'm worried about the guests not having a good time and the ceremony! Sooo nervous to say our vows in front of everyone.
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    VIP December 2020
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    Weather FOR SURE. I'm not too worried about anything else, maybe FH being in a grumpy mood from all the photography (he is not a big picture taker).

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