I have never been "one of the girls" who dreamed of my wedding day growing up, but I have jumped head first into this planning process and feel like I'm taking on the bulk of the work. My FH is involved in the decision making process for 99% of the vendors we've chosen, but he has done no legwork as far as researching or contacting vendors. I suppose you could say it's my fault for taking charge but he hasn't offered to lighten the load either. I've decided to delegate a task to him and put him 100% in charge or contacting and choosing a DJ. It's clearly something he cares about more than I do and it will help me out having one less thing on my plate.
My question is, is anyone else having this same problem? Is getting your FH to help planning like pulling teeth? Or are you a control freak like I am and you're just now realizing you should start utilizing his help? Should I insist he becomes more involved or will that just push him away?
