Do you change your mind constantly?

View Quoted Comment Same here. Went from having a small wedding party, to 20ppl in the wedding (kids included) supposed to be only around 60ppl invited to almost 90. But we have choosen a location on the water. And inexpensive venue. But I was just gonna have a simple wedding now it's gone a little over the top simple lol

No I don't actually. Which is really surprising because normally I'm always changing my mind.

We have went back and fourth since we've started planning. Backyard or venue. I guess it's harder for 2women to make a solid decision for 1 wedding🤣

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That's me too!! What are you two leaning towards now!?

View Quoted Comment Well I wanted to do a ceremony by either water or a conservatory for the pretty flowers, FW is shy in front of crowds I guess you could say so she wanted all of it small which I'm ok with but small to me is 40 small to her is 80. We've topped out at 80 on the guest list not in RSVPs. I've looked in the Belle isle boat house for the architectural beauty on the inside but they are already booked for our date..FW loves the buildings downtown so that's why I was trying to look for older style buildings to have our venue at. when I got into checking around for backyard wedding ideas there was a lot of information that I had forgotten about when I was making a list about hosting a backyard wedding most importantly was the porta potties. And truthfully I'm just not really sure how I feel about that so that's why I was leaning towards a venue because at least they have actual bathrooms lol. I still like the idea of a backyard wedding because it gives you more freedom as far as your timeline and to decorate how you want to. But if you're trying to have a backyard wedding to save money or cut cost it's looking to me like you're going to be spending about the same whether you do a venue or a backyard with the essentials of a tent and tables and chair rental in linen rental and Dish rental and catering and DJ or things like that. It doesn't help that we're both wishy-washy either.

Guilty. Especially if you hear what I originally wanted my wedding to be and what I envisioned, so different and so many changes!

I’m literally the most indecisive person alive lol so yes I change my mind a lot..my FH and my mom is s used to it and knows how to work with me when I get like that but his mom has no idea how to handle it lol

ALL THE TIME!!!

Oh so many times... Venue has been changed a few times, engagement photo place, bridesmaids (who and what theyre wearing) colors... favors... like so many different things, my pinterest board is such a mess I had to make a whole new one because I completely changed seasons!

I believe we have finally decided on doing a venue..and possibly the venue. This has been the hardest part this far..now on to the color scheme 🤦

I've changed my mind a lot which is terrible lol I've switched themes completely a few times

No I make additions sometimes but after I think things through and make a choice I stick to it. I am not quick to choose so changing things is unlikely.

No. I know what I want. Just have to wait for the money to get the ball rolling

So far, innocent. But I am sure I will be guilty of this the closer we get to the date. I am a VERY indecisive person, so who knows!