SO! I have about a year before we need to settle on a bridal party and I don't need to make my final decision now..
But I constantly go back and forth on whether or not to include my fiances sisters in the bridal party. Is it taboo to not ask them to be bridesmaids?
To start, I'll say, they've been quite rude to me on occasion and never include me in "sister things".. I feel like they see me as the B* that stole their brother. And while I would like to include them so they HAVE to spend time with me... I really shouldn't have to force them to get to know me. I've made attempts to spend time with them and I hit a brick wall.
They haven't been the most welcoming, and I don't have any sort of established relationship with either of them. And I'm hoping that changes over the next year.. but if it doesn't, I don't want to ask them to be bridesmaids. Fiance said that's fine, as we don't want a large bridal party to begin with. But I'm afraid of stepping on toes and hurting feelings.
Ladies of Wedding Wire, what would you do?