More Bridesmaid drama? this has got to stop

What is the point of going if she won't try anything on? That's not a very good excuse!

Tell me about it.......

but what do I do? I'm not sure if she will go on her own without me. I know the other two will...

What happens if your friend comes during my wedding? Are you not going to wear the dress

what do i do here

Both of my sisters skipped on our appointment, but my friends and FH sister made it. I don't understand! Hope things work themselves out, they usually do.

Geez...give her a damn tampon and tell her to carry on with life! What a bizarre excuse.

Thats just crazy.. I'm not gonna try anything on cuz my monthly friend is here... HUH?? so life stops every month because of that?? as my cycle is going at the moment it seams like mine will be here on my wedding... am I calling off the wedding?? or gonna walk down in jeans?? UMM NO!! I would go anyways today maybe she is just a bit moody.. and things might change when you get there... if not i'd kinda see how things pan out and if she isn't really into the whold wedding thing you might need to cut her I know it sounds harsh but you are getting to the 5 month mark like me.. I only had a MOH no BM's and had to cut her last week its hard but when they are not up to the simple obligations or have way too much going on in there own lives it has to be done.. for your sanity... Good luck and make the best of today see how it goes.. Let us know how everything works out..

I don't get that at all! Does she not go shopping at all when her monthly friend comes along! I would have told her to put on her big girl panties and get over it! I am sorry you have to deal with that! Good luck!

My goodness that's ridiculous. You have your period, it happens every month, you get dressed, you go to work, you get a little bloated. Take some midol and get OVER IT!

All I can say is WOW!!!! Just make sure she really wants to be there for you. Because you don't want any surprises closer to your wedding day. No extra stress is needed!! Good luck

Ridiculous! Im sorry that you have to experience that. Sometimes people are just fickle. Are you trying to give her/ bridal party an option in choosing her dress? Sometimes giving too many people options can be a problem.

Since only one of my bridal party lives in my town and she is never available to go with me because of her hubby and kids, i decided to take it upon myself to find the dresses. And my other BMs that live out of state all of them gave me their budget and blessings to choose. Once I knew what my wedding dress looked like I really choose their dresses based on mine. i went and tried on BM dresses just like I did wedding dresses. I narrowed it down to 4,sent the links to my MOH she helped me decide and that was that. So I basically in a nice way of course told my BMs what they were wearing. That may be an option for you. Since your cousin has already gone and liked some stuff but is still looking to you to decide. The other ladies may want more of your input too.

I also agree with Shani!

I love your profile name. chocolate girl and nizzles. Cute!