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Mrs. A. Fernandez
Master August 2014

How Compatible Are You & Your FH/H???

Mrs. A. Fernandez, on May 18, 2013 at 9:23 AM Posted in Planning 0 27

Have you ever sat and wondered how compatible you two are? I know that he is mostly the yen to my yang, but, we love to laugh, our sense of humor is pretty dead on, and we have the same taste in housing decor'. What about you and your mate?? Share please.

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Latest activity by TheLuckiest, on May 20, 2013 at 2:40 PM
  • Katie
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    Katie ·
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    Our sense of humor is exactly the same, and our values are the same, which is important to me.

    But hes an introvert and Im an extrovert, he's logical and Im emotional, hes level headed and Im moody... we level each other out. Its perfect Smiley smile

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  • Andre'ya
    Master March 2014
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    I have often wondered to myself why the hell are me and my FH together because we are nothing alike and our personalities crash...he's assertive, bold, and very open while I'm the opposite....I do the "thinking" for us two I supposed...when it comes to home decor and what nots I could care less, that's his department...

    He does complete me...I'm the water to his fire...and he's the sun in my often dark life....

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  • KitKatDC
    Devoted October 2013
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    We level each other our, one of us picks up where the other leaves off, and we have the same values. We sometimes find ourselves wondering why we fit so well together, and part if it is just how we have grown together.

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  • Heather S
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    We are so opposite it's not even funny. But, we are both learning to compromise and learn from each other's viewpoints. But, it can be challenging at times!

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  • Mrs. A. Fernandez
    Master August 2014
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    @Katie L. I am emotional too, as well as he is logical!!

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  • Mrs. A. Fernandez
    Master August 2014
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    @Heather A., I totally agree. We are learning to compromise on certain things as well. It is still a joy to be in love with him, even with him being a little different than I am. Very challenging!!...LOL

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  • April
    Expert May 2013
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    We also "level each other out" which often seems like just butting heads. I've also wondered what the hell we're doing together, with the biggest issue being the thermostat. But I love how sweet and kind he is , and how good he is with my children. And he just loves my full-on awesomeness Smiley smile

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  • Ned. G (The one in Wales)
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    We aren't just opposites we aren't each others 'types' either.

    The only thing we have in common is what we want out of life (jobs, kids that stuff) and our politics and we have a tiny tiny bit of humour in common as well but like two programmes and a comic and that's it

    But honestly on paper and if you met us you would never think that we worked - ever.

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  • S
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    Complete opposites. We have a hard time understanding each other, but were learning lol for some strange reason, we feel like its right. Capricorn & Leo...who would have ever thought lol

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  • FinallyDoingIt
    Master July 2014
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    Capricorn and Leo here too. We are very different. Very. I'm an introvert and he's an extrovert. I am always worried but he calms me.

    He has a million friends and I have 2.

    We had an immediate and intense attraction from the moment we met. We compromise on everything because we want to be together. Nothing is as important as us staying together. It's been hard but so fun. He's everything I didn't know I needed.

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  • S
    Devoted June 2015
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    So true @FinallyDoingit. It has been the same way. Lol I totally agree with 100%

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  • ForeverMyLove
    Master December 2014
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    We are both planners and are both a truck load of crazy when it comes to time. We both hate to be late and arrive everywhere at least 20 minutes early. We both LOVE the outdoors, reading, children (we both want to adopt) music (R&B and Hip-Hop from the 90's) and are active in our community. The one thing that really did it for me: we are both active in our church in pretty much the same ministries (evangelism and children)

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  • ice fire
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    We are almost alike. He is more of an introvert than I am. We share a lot of silent moments cuz we both don't talk a lot.

    But I am a bit of a hothead sometimes and like @Andrea puts it, he is the water to my fire and I love him to bits.

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  • Jennifer
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    We are pretty much exactly the same except He's always cold and I'm always hot. He has a weird sense of humor and yet so do I. We both only have a handful of friends as neither of us really like other people. We also both would prefer to sit at home in our PJs and watch a movie eating pizza and drinking beer vs going out all the time. Neither of us really enjoy the bar scene but occasionally we wanna go. He's messy and I'm clean. Neither of us are morning people and we are both night owls. However I need like 8 hrs of asleep and he is good on 4 or 5. He doesn't care about details or decor..which made it easy for me to do what I want with the wedding and house Smiley smile)

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  • Jennifer
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    We are pretty much exactly the same except He's always cold and I'm always hot. He has a weird sense of humor and yet so do I. We both only have a handful of friends as neither of us really like other people. We also both would prefer to sit at home in our PJs and watch a movie eating pizza and drinking beer vs going out all the time. Neither of us really enjoy the bar scene but occasionally we wanna go. He's messy and I'm clean. Neither of us are morning people and we are both night owls. However I need like 8 hrs of asleep and he is good on 4 or 5. He doesn't care about details or decor..which made it easy for me to do what I want with the wedding and house Smiley smile)

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  • Mrs. A. Fernandez
    Master August 2014
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    @FinallyDoingIt, I am a Leo and he is an Aquarius. Leo's are one of the best people to make a wife & friend!!!!

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  • Mrs. A. Fernandez
    Master August 2014
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    My fh is so good at handling my overly emrional , sometimes bossy, strong-minded, super compassionate, loving self!!! I luh him!!!!

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
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    We have the same values and goals, but we have minor differences too. He's a collector, I'm a minamalist.

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  • Tiffany
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    We both are country. We both love the outdoors. We both like to joke and kid around. We both love to travel, except he is alittle more extreme with it.

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  • Mrs. A. Fernandez
    Master August 2014
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    @We'llAlwaysHaveParis., I think we all have a collector in our lives..lol!!

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