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Riya
Super November 2018

FH involvement level

Riya, on January 23, 2017 at 3:19 PM

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Hi! How involved are your FHs? Mine wants to know the least detail possible but the funny thing is he totally does have opinions! He just doesn't want to hear about all the details involved (like pros vs cons etc) What about you all?

Hi!

How involved are your FHs? Mine wants to know the least detail possible but the funny thing is he totally does have opinions! He just doesn't want to hear about all the details involved (like pros vs cons etc)

What about you all?

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  • Isheefishee
    Expert June 2017
    Isheefishee ·
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    So funny, FH noticed I've been on WW more lately and just after I posted before he asked how wedding planning is going! I showed him the budget and check list and he said he didn't know how I kept all this straight and was impressed

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  • Tricia
    VIP October 2017
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    Totally involved. Went to every appointment with me. Cares more about some things like the venue, photographer than others, like flowers and registry, but even those he looks at the ideas and discusses the person we are considering.

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  • D
    Dedicated July 2017
    Donya ·
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    FH is heavily involved. He'll say whatever I want but he'll entertain the discussions and attends all appointments.

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  • Amanda
    Super October 2017
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    My FH is involved except setting up the appointments but he comes to all the meetings with me.

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  • Nicole
    Super September 2018
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    I always joke and say "he just signs the checks and says yes dear" but in reality he's actually really involved. We always talk everything over together, decide how much is too much, make a combination of what we both like for certain things.

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  • seda
    Expert February 2017
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    Mine is the same. I give him two or three choices and let him pick. I can't complain too much though because he works and I just finished Grad School, so I definitely have more time on my hands.

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  • Kristina
    Devoted August 2017
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    Same here, we picked the venue together ( i chose places booked appointments then he came along) we decided on the one together. Then i ask about decor show him what i like show him other options then its "well what do you like, i like them all" ask about what songs to play for ceremony he says ugh we have to choose that? What do you like. Cake all i got out of him was no fondant i like buttetcream. Then i tell him i want a light grey tux (our colors are coral and grey) he says ok but i have to try on the color because idk might like the darker one ahhhh no light grey is the color scheme not dark grey i asked him about colors awhile back he said what do you want, but he does come to every appointment with me

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  • Amanda
    VIP May 2017
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    He wanted to pick the cake

    ..and thats about it , which i prefer lol.

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  • Kristina
    Devoted August 2017
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    The only thing he had a major input about was i asked of he wantedto o first looks because our ceremony and reception are at the samd place he was dead set no first look he wants to see me when i walk down the aisle not before

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  • Trish
    Super June 2017
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    My FH went to all the important vendor appointments with me. For the most part, he says "whatever you want to do babe." He did say he will help me make centerpieces and invitations and all the DIY stuff. I love, love DIY crafts, but having him help will be a blessing!

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