Dinner wedding- can we do first dance?

Dance dance dance

Go for it!

Awesome - thank you! I didn't see it as such a big deal either. I was told by the venue that there is sometimes dancing for weddings in here for small dances/couples. I'll try to upload a pic of the space. We can either do something in the center, or my fiance thought of dancing around the room a little bit, but i think it might be better to do a low key dance, maybe in a corner of the space, our musician might have some cute lighting or we can put up a string of lights or some decoration. thinking out loud a bit! I'm sure we will figure it out

We were thinking about parent dances, however, are on the fence. He does not know if his mom would like to dance (be the center of attention in that way) And honestly, when i was married the first time, i did dance with my dad, and im not sure if i feel the need to do it again...

Thanks for the warm welcome everyone!

I actually think both you and the other site are right. It's a bit like saying "We're having cake, but none for you," so I'm not wild about it and I think it is a little rude. But I don't think it is the biggest deal in the world and that your guests will understand it is a symbolic thing for you guys. If you could possibly clear a small space for everyone that would be great. Otherwise, carry on and just count your guest's well wishes to gloss over the slight rudeness.

Here are some photos. i think its a matter or the piano maybe moving out of the room to make more space. Im going to have a chat with them next time we visit!

AlwaysMs. - I understand your point which is why i am looking into options. Some have rented a room down the way for dancing after the dinner. But that is an added expense. As you can see the room is simply a dining room. We would be making a space for a special dance,.. So far, everyone is supportive of us dancing, and i dont want to take the romance out of it for my fiance.

Do it! It's just the 2 of you, so you won't need a ton of space, but having a first dance is definitely something sweet that you don't want to miss.

One more pic sorry for the bad quality above.

I think it will be fine and sounds like your guests don't have an issue with it.

That looks totally doable for a very small dance floor. That's all you need! Absolutely gorgeous space and I'm sure it will be a wonderful, romantic day for you guys.

Do it! It would be great if you could create a little space so someone could dance after if they wanted to, no need for a "dance floor".

I say have your FH ask his mom about the mother-son dance. She may be looking forward to it (or dreading it).

It's something you'll always remember. I wouldn't skip it for the world!

Thank you thank you!!! <3 <3 Love the idea of FH asking his mom.... she might actually like it.

I don't see a problem at all with your plan!

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I think if its just the two of you... it should be fine. You just might have to "prom sway" instead of more of a waltz or choreographed dance.

I think it's fine. Just out of curiosity, what did the other forum say?

If there's room for it, why not? Do you think people would be mad because then they couldn't dance? I think once guests see the venue they'd see that a dance floor isn't possible. Totally fine!

ETA: Just saw your pics. I actually think if you move the piano to the side, that would be room for a dance floor for everyone to dance, if they wanted to. Either way, I wouldn't be hating if I were a guest.

Yes it's your day it will be fine. Make the memories for you and your F H

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I don't think it's rude at all. I think your family and guests will completely understand. I think it's actually romantic and I, personally, LOVE seeing the bride and groom's first dance. It's such an intimate moment that I'm sure your guests will feel appreciative that you guys decided to still let them witness. <3

I think that would be fine! I think you should absolutely have your first dance!