Did you always dream about your wedding day?

I never did either. I enjoy being the center of attention, although I'm shy when I am not. I know, it doesn't make any since! I always thought about the man I would marry and not my wedding or my dress. SO many girls say "I've dreamed about it my whole life" I cannot say that either. Good post!

I guess I occasionally dreamed about my wedding. When I was little it was about the wedding and the dress and stuff like that. I also would sometimes picture it when I was helping my other friends get married. The older I got the less I dreamed about it. Mostly because I was in a bad relationship and then single for 5 yrs before I met my FH. I do have to say that lately the wedding consumes my thoughts but I also give a lot of thought about being a wife and to the marriage part of this whole also!

I am one of those girls who dreamed my whole life about it. I used to draw out pictures of dresses that I'd want to have custom made for me and my bridesmaids. Apparently I thought I'd have a money tree in my back yard too! haha I actually did find an almost exact dress to my wedding dress doodle! It was amazing!!! so I bought it without thinking twice and two years later I'm happy with my decision. haha. I knew what I wanted to wear and that I would have my hair in long beautiful curls. Part of it up part of it down. but now I have super short hair and I can't stand to take care of long hair. (my pic is the longest it has ever been) So needless to say I'm getting extensions. I literally would have dreams on a weekly basis of the actual wedding when I was about fifteen or so. It would make me crazy because I could never see the groom's face and the day I met my now fiance, I had that dream again that night and I saw his face and it was him. I kid you not! It was the most amazing...

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Dream ever!!! Ahhh but yea I've always planned it out since I was a little kid. I knew there would be tons of flowers and diamonds everywhere and it would have every person I had ever met. Then we would take our stretch limo back to our mansion and live happily ever after....again, I guess I thought I'd have a money tree! Lol

I never dreamt about my wedding day I used to dream about what my husband would be like and well he is better than the dream! I never really had any idea of what my wedding would be like which worked well for us because we were both so open to eachothers ideas through all the planning I didnt have specific colors or a theme or anything in mind lol.

I never had a dream wedding image... i never really even thought about what i may like until i started helping my mom plan her wedding. then i started to see things i would like/not like. just so happened that a weke after my moms wedding, and me catching the boquet, i got engaged! now all i do is dream wedding stuff, its rediculous!

Not marriage per se, but life with my FH..lol, I always wondered what it would be like if we lived togetherike who would be the better cook/cleaner/etc.. lol and boy..did I ever learn what it is like! lol..That honeymoon stage is great after you move in together...now, we're just plain ol' people eat dinner, talk, watch tv, talk, sometimes clean together, then go to bed, early now, as it is winter and DARK ALL THE TIME! LOL but I did dream about the wedding, after I realized that I wanted to marry my fh and I wanted a hometown wedding with all our fmaily and friends, big differece pre-FH meeting, I was going to elope and adopt kids. Now it's get married at home, with all our fmaily anf friends, and hope to start having a a family..lol

I like this post. This will be my 2nd marriage. I never dreamed of having a wedding or a marriage the 1st time - which lasted just short of 11 years. This time around, we both are older & wiser (this is his 1st marriage). We know what we want & don't want & are mature enough to make comprimising decisions. And, so my answer would be yes to having dreamt of both wedding and marriage this time around and I can't wait! -dh

Yes i have now i am really thinking about just going to the jp and using money we would have spent on a trip or stuff we will need