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Shannon and Aaron
Savvy September 2023

Crazy stocker ex girlfriend

Shannon and Aaron, on June 27, 2016 at 3:44 PM Posted in Fitness and Health 0 77
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I need some advice ladies. Over a year ago my FH broke up with this girl and they had only dated 2 months. Once she found out we are engaged she has been showing up at his work, taking pictures of him without him knowing, and having her friends message us constantly. She has a mental handicap and we don't know what to do. We keep blocking her and her friends but it's not working. She is threatening to show up at our wedding. Please any advice will help.

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Latest activity by Rachelxoxo, on August 26, 2017 at 3:42 PM
  • FutureMrsWallace
    VIP July 2016
    FutureMrsWallace ·
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    Restraining order

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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
    OG Kathryn ·
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    POLICE, go to the POLICE.

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  • Chrissy
    Master September 2016
    Chrissy ·
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    This is not a question for an Internet forum, get a restraining order. Also, stalking*

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  • T&T Mrs C
    Master August 2016
    T&T Mrs C ·
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    I wouldn't hesitate. Go straight to the police!

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    "Stalker"

    You say she has a mental handicap, what does that mean?

    I don't know the criteria for getting the police involved but you can always give them a call and see what they say.

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  • MsDani313
    Super September 2016
    MsDani313 ·
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    Restraining order.

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  • JPB808
    Super August 2016
    JPB808 ·
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    Omg that's crazy! Did you report her to your local police department? Sounds like harassment.

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  • BeachBride2016
    Master November 2016
    BeachBride2016 ·
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    She's a grocery stocker?

    Ohhhh, stalker. Got it.

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  • OriginalKD
    Master December 2015
    OriginalKD ·
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    Curious as to the mental condition.

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  • [anonymous]
    Master October 2017
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    Call your police department's non-emergency number, tell them what's going on and they will point you in the right direction.

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  • Shannon and Aaron
    Savvy September 2023
    Shannon and Aaron ·
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    She has aspergers

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  • SLR
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    SLR ·
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    What do you mean by mental handicap?

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  • Kmess
    Master October 2015
    Kmess ·
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    Also, make sure you document everything. Keep record of any harassing emails, texts, or messages she may have left. Record the date that she showed up at your FH's work and make sure you have someone who can act as a witness.

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  • Shannon and Aaron
    Savvy September 2023
    Shannon and Aaron ·
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    We called her together and told her to leave us only or we will call the police. I guess we will have to do that. Sorry about spelling stalker wrong. I haven't been getting to much sleep. Thanks for the advice.

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  • OG Kathryn
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    Why would you freaking contact her?! GO TO THE POLICE!

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  • Hot Like Bea
    Master January 2017
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    What kind of items does she stock?

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  • Mrs. Mac
    Master July 2016
    Mrs. Mac ·
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    Yeap I would document everything you can. Get your proof and get a restraining order.

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  • CHEYENNE
    Super September 2016
    CHEYENNE ·
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    Three things 1. Restraining order. 2. Police 3. Hire security for your wedding.....

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  • therightLane
    Master October 2017
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    That's no reason not to put in a no contact order. Individuals with Aspergers are highly functioning. FH's best man has it, but you could never tell when meeting him.

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    If she's high-functioning enough to date then the Asperger's isn't really the issue here.

    When did you guys call her and tell her you'd call the police? If it hasn't stopped since I'd go ahead and make that call.

    You can edit your post so it's spelled right and people don't think you're talking about some crazy produce stocker lol.

    ETA: In the future definitely don't contact her again.

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