My cousin lives in CO and my wedding is in NJ. The bachelorette is in NYC and she is super excited to come to the bachelorette (after inviting herself along). I don't care though, if she wants to pay to
Fly across the country to come, great! She keeps mentioning that she is going to "try to make it" to the wedding. This has led me to believe she is flying across the country to attend the bachelorette and will not attend the wedding. (Bachelorette is in mid August and Wedding is second week of Sept) Am I wrong to think that is rude or odd? The only reason we are having a bachelorette is because of the wedding...We aren't THAT close so I'm not SUPER hurt, but I find this tacky. I would never do that with someone else's wedding. Am I wrong?