My fiance and I have been together for 7 years and have been engaged for 4 months. We have booked our venue and set a date for June 5th 2021. We're still in college and have been having trouble getting approved to live off campus. Living off campus and getting our own place would help us immensely in the future by lessoning the amount of student loans we would have to pull out. One of the campus exemptions at our school is to be married, so we have been thinking about going to the courthouse and doing a legal marriage on June 5th 2020 (a year before our set wedding date). We would still have the wedding a year later, but this way we would be able to live off campus and get more help with financial aid (because we will be dependents). We have a meeting with our pastor to discus our wedding in 2021, but I don't know how to explain our situation to him in a way that he would understand. I also am not sure how to go about telling everyone else about our situation, or if we should just keep it a secret. HELP!
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