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Dedicated June 2020

Coronavirus and June Wedding

Aundreya, on March 20, 2020 at 12:24 AM Posted in Community Conversations 1 9
Is anybody else worried for their June wedding?

Our wedding is June 20th. I'm lowkey freaking out.
This coronavirus is causing so much mix up.My fiance was in the Law Enforcement Academy until this week. They were sent home for minimum of 8 weeks. They will return and then finish their last 5 weeks. This pushes his graduation daye from end of April, to right around our wedding date. Like either the day before or the day of or could be after, which means we will have to cancel our honeymoon. We do not know exact date until he receives an email.We are to have rehearsal dinner and set everything up the day before (which could possibly be his new grad date).We can't postpone because we will not have our deposit transferred over. No guarantees that our photographer, DJ, officiant, makeup artist, or hair stylist will be available on different date because we booked everything a year in advance. My invitations are almost done and will be ready to send out in a couple of weeks too!I'm hoping this all blows over and the curve is flattened because right now I am not sure what we are going to do.Part of me keeps saying to not worry and that everything will work out. Then the other part is stressing out so much that I can't sleep.

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Latest activity by Natalie, on March 30, 2020 at 10:31 PM
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    Dedicated June 2020
    Courtney ·
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    Good morning. I was an April 18th bride and re-scheduled for June 20th. I'm trying to remain positive that all of this will be over by then, but in the back of my mind I can't get truly excited. The venue said they would reschedule me again if need be. My aunt is a florist and says that is against the law for some reason 🤷‍♀️ but during this time I'm not sure that really matters. We've got to do what we gotta do.
    Still, I've been so stressed about not having my April wedding that I'm really trying to remain hopeful for June Brides!!
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    I'm so sorry Aundreya! My heart goes out to you during this insane and uncertain time!! Smiley heart

    I know a lot of couples with June weddings are in an anxious "wait and see" mode right now, but the good news is you're not alone! We've started gathering initial resources in our COVID-19 Wedding Support Central, and I've also seen a lot of June brides coming together to share their concerns in this discussion: June 2020 Weddings - How's everyone feeling?

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  • Laura
    Beginner June 2021
    Laura ·
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    That's how I feel right now also
    Our wedding date is June 6th 2020
    I have sent out all of our invites also People r telling us to postpone it and some r telling me just take day by day it is really stressful bc I have no clue what to do bc we have been planning this for over a year and a half and now this coronavirus has to change everything
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  • Laura
    Beginner June 2021
    Laura ·
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    I am a wreck bc I don't know what to do or think
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  • Dynesha
    Devoted June 2020
    Dynesha ·
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    I’m trying to keep my emotions and paranoid thoughts at bay as I have a June 2020 wedding and I work in law enforcement so I feel for you Aundreya. We sent out invitations at the beginning of the month and have already been receiving RSVPs. Most of my friends are in law enforcement or health care so we all have the attitude of hoping it settles soon. I’ve received some sort of communication from every institution (banks, drs, online shopping) except from any of my vendors. I’m in the same boat if not wanting to worry too much; I don’t know what I can do.
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  • Vincent
    Just Said Yes June 2022
    Vincent ·
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    My wedding date was June 6, 2020 and we just rescheduled to October 2nd, 2020 this weekend. We were not "made" to but we were encouraged and I, personally... couldn't take the uncertainty anymore. We have also been very fortunate that our wedding venue and vendors have all been incredibly generous and kind in shifting the date and encouraging a later date.

    We are in talks with our Wedding Party currently. We are being understanding of those who might not be able to make it work (even though almost all have confirmed) and will be contacting all of our guests this week. We are sending out mailers that will have a simple message about COVID-19 and with the help of our wedding planner, vendors and family have chosen to postpone to a later date. Our guests will be encouraged to visit our Wedding Website for all of the updates and details. We have all information, wedding block, RSVP and meal selection on the website and have chosen to lean on a digital platform. We'll update our information there to reflect the new date and of course, be understanding of those that can no longer attend.

    At this point... it's out of our hands and we are hopeful and excited to celebrate. We didn't want our guests to come to the wedding and still be in the midst of hardship or have minds reeling from this pandemic. Pushing it out further into the season seemed safer and considerate for all involved. We are sending all the good vibes and energy out to you all! We will get through this... and we WILL celebrate.Smiley heart

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  • Natalie
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    I think its naive to assume anything at this point. I understand we must keep hope, but we must also be realistic and prepare for the worst case scenario (postponement.) I am right here with you, except I am having to sort this out sooner.

    Our wedding is planned for June 13, 2020 and while that seems far enough out to not have to postpone - with all the uncertainty and information rapidly changing on a daily basis, I can't help but be overwhelmed with stress and anxiety. I've already had to cancel by bridal shower and am sure my bach is out of the question at this point too.

    Here in CA, we have a "Shelter in Place" ordinance in effect through April 19th with the possibility of that extending to May if our situation here does not improve. Our venue has had to cancel and postpone weddings that were planned through April. My heart ACHES for those couples.

    We are hoping late April will offer more clarity for the future of 2020, however, what everyone needs to understand (myself included) is that even if things "calm down" soon, it doesn't mean people will be out of danger while in close proximity to one another. We never expect to have to make such a heartbreaking decision, however, it is not nearly as heartbreaking as the idea of putting our loved ones at risk.

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  • Natalie
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    Natalie ·
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    Hi there, so sorry you are going through this too, you're not alone! I've just posted a lengthy message regarding this issue. I think it would really help you to read it.

    https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/june-couples-postponing-due-to-covid-19-encouragement/e2e6a03e5635af33.html

    All the best,

    Natalie


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  • Natalie
    Devoted July 2021
    Natalie ·
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    Hi there, so sorry you are going through this too, you're not alone! I've just posted a lengthy message regarding this issue. I think it would really help you to read it.

    https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/june-couples-postponing-due-to-covid-19-encouragement/e2e6a03e5635af33.html

    All the best,

    Natalie

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