A friend of mine is having a out of the country destination wedding. Before she is going to have to do a civil court in the US, but invited some of the guests who wouldn't be able to travel to come to the civil court, and then to a restaurant to eat out as a mini celebration (no she's not renting a room at the restaurant, just a local restaurant).
She asks: Does she have to pay for everyone's plate or should the guests pay for themselves, since she is still paying for a wedding?