I have four daughters from my previous marriage so we all have the same last name. I always thought that if I ever married again I would keep the name and hyphenate it with the new name. I didn't want them to think I was separate from them in any way. However, I asked FH what his thoughts were and he said he really didn't want to start out our brand new marriage with my previous husband's last name still there. I totally understand that.
But then my 8 year old was sad when she learned my name would change. Any suggestions or happy mediums to be found here?