Champagne toast

If it's rude why does most places only offer it to the bride and groom?

It's a lot of money just to be wasted. You already have an open bar let everyone toast with what they prefer. If you and your FH wish to have champagne then by all means drink up! I don't find it rude.

This is definitely an all or none situation. Either provide it for everyone, or nobody. Period. Even just the two of you and nobody else is incredibly rude.

It's included with the standard package at my venue. So we're doing it. I wouldn't pay $600 for just champagne though.

On the other side, my FH always notices if there is a champagne toast and gets irrationally sad when there isn't.

Kayla, I think you will that most vendors are not concerned with etiquette, particularly if it impacts their profits or reviews. A couple feels particularly well taken care of if they get champagne and is more likely to enthusiastically review the vendor. Any couple who accepts has no idea it's rude so they just see it as evidence that their vendor loves them. The wedding industry has created a lot of rude (honeyfunds) and unnecessary (STDs, elaborate bridesmaid "proposal" boxes) things in order to get people to spend more. If etiquette forbids something they are more than happy to be rude if they get to cash your check.

I think you can have champagne as long as everyone has a drink. You guys have champagne cuz you're the bride and groom. I definitely wouldn't be upset about it.

If just the bride and groom have champagne I don't think anyone would care. And are guests really going to look that close from across the room and be like omg they have champagne why can't I have that, when there's a full bar with plenty of other options? Probably not. Just my opinion though.

Just you. Definitely not worth it. Everyone will just drink what they're already drinking!

We are going to let everyone toast with the drink of their choice. Champagne will be offered at the bar.

All or none. It's that simple.

Because you are offering an open bar, I would skip offering champagne to everyone.

Champagne toast is included in our package. Champagne is also available all night and we are having a top shelf open bar all night. I personally never drink champagne at weddings and I also know many people who dont. A champagne table looks nice but I would not spend extra on it.

If u already have an open bar, u and ur hubby will have the free toast while everyone else picks their drinks from the bar. SAVE SAVE SAVE.