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Just Said Yes July 2020

Ceremony now, and later??

Kelsey, on April 1, 2020 at 4:12 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 4

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Hello!

It's looking like we'll have to reschedule our wedding due to corona. The problem is we have so much stuff with our original date already! We've talked about just eloping on our original day and postponing the reception. The problem is, I've always envisioned getting ready in the venue, walking down the aisle, and having everyone there.
Is there anyway for us to do an elopement and then a symbolic ceremony later? Also, what about bridesmaids??How are brides that are super traditional handling this whole virus thing?? I want to be married, but I also want it to match my vision!Help!!

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Latest activity by Gina, on April 8, 2020 at 9:53 PM

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Alisha · on April 1, 2020 at 4:25 AM
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Honestly I feel the same way. The actual wedding itselfnis very sumbplic and meaningful to my fiancé and I so eloping is not an option. Just wouldn't feel right. So it would really suck if we have to wait all the way until next year (we can only get married in the summer) Our date worked so perfectly for us this year. Everyday I try to stay positive and hope things will get better so we can have our special day and if peppe aren't comfortable coming we will totally understand. I really want my vision too. I hope we both get ours❤
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Samantha · on April 1, 2020 at 7:07 AM
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If you want your marriage certificate to have that date then just do it. And if you want a ceremony later have it with all the bells and whistles. I'm sure your loved ones will understand. If you think that it wouldn't feel right then wait. There is literally nothing stopping you from celebrating an anniversary on the date you originally chose. Personally, our wedding date is not the date we will celebrate, (date is practical). We will celebrate our original anniversary.
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Monica · on April 1, 2020 at 11:06 AM
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Im hoping to elope on our anniversary with immediate family then church ceremony in the fall with everyone (including wedding party) and reception. I really want our wedding day to be on the 4th because thats our day but if the courts are closed I guess its not the end of the world.
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Gina · on April 8, 2020 at 9:53 PM
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Hi Kelsey,
This is definitely a crazy stressful and uncertain time for everyone! It seems like a lot of June/July brides are waiting a few more weeks before making postponement decisions, but everyone's situation is different and it never hurts to be proactive about plan b!
You also aren't alone right now! ❤️
I personally love the idea of having a small wedding on your special day and then celebrating with a big reception in a few months, or on your 1 year anniversary!
There are many resources on our website that may be helpful as you navigate the planning process. This is a great place to start: Our COVID-19 Weddings Advice Guide. You'll find articles like this one: What to Do About Your Wedding During the Coronavirus Pandemic.
And here's another discussion specifically about July 2020 Weddings!
Good luck!
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