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Jillian
Master May 2015

@ Celia - how do you normally end a ceremony??

Jillian, on April 9, 2015 at 9:40 AM Posted in Planning 0 9

We are working with FH aunt (who is our officiant) and she has left it up to us how we want to end the ceremony. I was thinking 'by the power .........I pronounce you husband and wife. You may now kiss your bride' I feel like at that point, typically, people stand on their own. She wanted to know if we wanted her to 'present' us as mr and mrs or any other announcements. I envisioned just doing the kiss, people getting the point that it's over and us walking out. Since everything is in one venue it won't be a large gap (our pictures during cocktail hour) between us walking into the reception room and the DJ announcing us.

Celia - how do you end ceremonies? Is it normal for the officiate to 'present' the couple to everyone after the kiss, do you say other things, what the heck kind of announcements could she mean??

What are other people doing? I haven't been to a ton of weddings to remember what I've seen in the past of ceremonies ending.

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Latest activity by Brittany, on April 9, 2015 at 11:11 PM
  • Beth
    Master May 2015
    Beth ·
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    Obviously I'm not Celia, but after announcing us husband and wife and doing the kiss, our pastor is saying the Irish Blessing. Then we walk back down the aisle. ETA: typo

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  • Janeen
    Master January 2015
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    I really really wanted to answer this with "with fire and brimstone!"

    My officiant presented us as "chuck and janeen R" Then our exit music played and people stood as we walked away.

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  • Barbara
    Master September 2014
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    As long as your processional music starts right after the kiss (you'll need to be very clear with whoever is doing your ceremony music), then you guys will walk out, and then guests will know they can leave.

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  • Celia Milton
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    With a glass of wine?

    just kidding. sorta.

    I don't usually do that 'by the power vested in me....stuff...I just don't like it. It sounds too legally to me. Most of my couples don't have me announce their 'new' couple name, partly because many of my brides don't plan to change their name (or aren't sure...) I only "present" them if I don't 'pronounce' them (like in a vow renewal). I kind of like the DJ being able to intro them for the first time as Mr and Mrs (or Mrs and Mrs or Mr and Mr) when they enter the reception.

    Almost all of my ceremonies end with the kiss; I tell the couple to hold the kiss until they hear the recessional music start (ideally several second later), they walk down the aisle followed by their bridal party, and then I dismiss the front rows.

    The only things I really do AFTER the kiss are a glass breaking (as in a Jewish ceremony) or a broom jump (Celtic or African American ceremony). Any announcements after the kiss and recessional just get ignored so I don't bother. If they guests need to be directed to cocktail hour or another room, I'd enlist a couple of ushers, banquet staff or your BP to stay at the entrance to the ceremony and let people know where to go.

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  • Jillian
    Master May 2015
    Jillian ·
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    Haha could you elaborate on the 'present vs prounounce' , please??

    Do you mean the presenting/pronouncement as in, 'I pronounce you ___ and ___ (husband and wife in my case)? Or something else??

    I will have our DJ welcome us in and announce us mr and mrs..., even though I'm just adding his name to my name, so it's not 100% true, but I'll play along for that. I just don't want that done at the end of the ceremony too, so I wasn't sure if it would seem weird/rushed to just end like this:

    I now pronounce you husband and wife

    you may kiss your bride

    music starts *kiss*, we all leave....without anything else being said?

    Thanks for all the help :o)

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  • Nancy Taussig
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    “Inasmuch as you, _____, and you, _____, have this day consented together in Marriage, and have given and pledged your love each to the other, and have declared the same by giving and receiving rings in the presence of these witnesses, by virtue of authority vested in me under the laws of the State of Florida, I now pronounce you Husband and Wife.”

    Then I quietly say, "You may now kiss" as I duck out of the photo.

    I don't introduce them for the same reasons as Celia.

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  • Theresa Beale
    Master November 2014
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    I know I am not Celia but I loved the end of our ceremony (and I changed my last name and my FIL officiated so there was a more "family" feel, I think the closing would be a little much if said by an officiant we didn't have a previous relationship with) so I am sharing it with you:

    Closing:

    With the sense of incomparable joy that you have found emotional sanctuary for your heart, that you have discovered your life’s true love, I now pronounce you husband and wife.

    Preparation for the kiss.

    You have kissed a thousand times, maybe more. But today the feeling is new. No longer simply partners and best friends, you have become husband and wife and can now seal the agreement with a kiss. Today your kiss is your promise.

    You may kiss the bride.

    It is now my pleasure to present you Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Beale.

    (Cue recessional music)

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  • Celia Milton
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    I like that Theresa; very sweet; I may steal it ;-)

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  • Brittany
    Super September 2015
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    You asked about announcements that she might be referencing. The only real announcements I've seen have been after the bride and groom go down the aisle. The officiant may say something about a receiving line, joining the bride and groom at the reception site, going to a specific area for cocktail hour, etc. If everything is all in one area you won't need to worry about those!

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