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Jessica
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Cash/honeymoon fund on Registry? Yay or nay?

Jessica, on October 21, 2016 at 2:09 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 44

My FH and I have begun creating our wedding registry and are wondering weather or not to add a cash fund registry (which we would use towards purchasing a home and appliances/furniture) and a honeymoon registry (we're taking a 1-year anniversary trip rather than a honeymoon right after the wedding)....

My FH and I have begun creating our wedding registry and are wondering weather or not to add a cash fund registry (which we would use towards purchasing a home and appliances/furniture) and a honeymoon registry (we're taking a 1-year anniversary trip rather than a honeymoon right after the wedding).

However, I'm stuck on the fence about it because I've read many articles that you should add it, if you and your fiancee desire that more than the usual wedding registry with household items. But at the same time, I feel they are tacky and asking for it, even through a registry, sounds a little desperate and unclassy.

We haven't published the registries yet so we have time to decide. It's seems to be an up and coming trend but I have an inkling it's not one I should follow.

44 Comments

  • Carebear1818
    Super August 2016
    Carebear1818 ·
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    Shout out to OP for taking advice/having an open mind, it's refreshing Smiley smile

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  • Sarah H.
    Master September 2016
    Sarah H. ·
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    Wait an OP came back AND listened to us? That's almost unheard of, cheers.


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  • Tanya
    Dedicated February 2018
    Tanya ·
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    I'm having the same issues F H does not agree so I'm on the fence as well

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  • Chrissy
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    I’m just a wedding guest, but I appreciate a cash fund. Sorry. I know people think it’s tacky but it’s so much easier than a registry. The only confusion for me is if I do the cash fund, do I still get a gift, in which case, a registry is preferred.
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