Cancelling wedding

Jesus Christ, what a dick! I'm sorry this is happening. Do you think it's the thought of fatherhood and becoming someones husband all in a short span of time that freaking him out or is he just really an inconsiderate sloth? I don't have much useful advice other than what you other users have probably said already. Sit him down and discuss this because even if he doesn't want to get married, he can't escape fatherhood that easy (and hopefully won't try). Ask him if he's willing to go to marital counseling. Lastly, give it a few days before cancelling your vendors. Just incase it's just him freaking out about the upcoming changes.

Goodluck, my heart goes out to you. This is a shitty situation.

Praying for you!! I'm so sorry!!!

I'm so, so sorry love. Just call the vendors and explain, they will understand. Take care of you and your beautiful baby. Sending lots of love.

I'm so sorry! Take one day a time and good luck

Omg I am SO sorry! You deserve better than that and he probably knows that. You'll strong and beautiful. You got this!

I just read your updates and I wanted to send you more hugs. It sounds like you guys are working together as well as can be expected right now.

PP are correct that he should be paying for half of everything as far as the vendors go. Just because he changed his mind, does not mean he is absolved of ALL responsibility for the wedding. A wedding/marriage is supposed to be a partnership, and he needs to take his share of the burden of canceling and paying for everything still due.

Praying for you in this hard time. God always has a way of working things out.

Oh no!! I am so so so sorry that you are going through this! Prayers and well wishes as you power through this tough time! Congratulations on the baby, though!! Prayers for a healthy remainder of your pregnancy!

I had an ultrasound today and I thought I would share it with all of you because you were all so sweet. Also, thank you to whoever bought 3 items from my baby registry, it was completely unnecessary and I truly am thankful and grateful. The doctor says the baby is measuring right on track and has a strong heartbeat!

That is such a sweet sight! If you are in need of any baby items I can donate my daughter's gently used items to you, feel free to contact me at ***********@*****.***

Mods, please don't mark my post as selling as I am trying to simply donate any items she may be in need of. Thank you

So sorry sending you virtual hugs!!!!

Awww!!! Thanks for sharing! Incredible!

I'm so so so sorry!! You are a strong and brave woman and you will be an amazing mom. Sending hugs your way

I'm sorry!

Wow I wish I knew exactly what to say. Cancelling your wedding will absolutely suck but it's better that you know now. I heard a story of someone being left at the alter so you have months to hurt and heal. Congratulations on carrying your bundle of joy. I hope he decides to be involved in the baby's life. If so great, take all that money and spend it on your bouncing baby. You are stronger than you think so breathe in, breathe out. You are A WOMAN and no one can do what we do.

Sussn K. Great advice about baby pictures. See if the venue maybe can see if someone looking for that date and you can sell at a discount rate. But! Be honest with venders and venues they may try to help. There's nothing anyone can say to ease the gut renching pain. I hate to make this statement better he walk away then something drastic happened to you and your baby. Right now make sure to close all bank accounts. Don't rush stress to do nothing at family court you got time. Right now focus on your beautiful bundle of joy that will need you. Next! Don't allow him to make you feel unworthy that it's your fault. Seek higher power what ever yours may be. Turn all the pain negative to joy and positive. Don't allow yourself to be a victim anymore. Don't talk about the negative but how you dodge that bullet. Every morning speak love over yourself and baby. God bless looking forward to baby pictures.

Sweet little babe

I'm so incredibly sorry to hear that No advice really, I hope things start looking up soon for you and Baby! Focus on the good in that, your child

I'm so sorry (virtual hugs)