Jillian
Savvy October 2020

Can i wear grandmothers band before my wedding?

Jillian, on August 7, 2019 at 2:22 PM Posted in Planning 0 12
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Hey y鈥檃ll. So I literally post on here so freaking much 馃槄
anyways, my mom gave me my grandmothers anniversary band to wear with my engagement ring. It鈥檚 gorgeous and looks like it was made for my ring. I love the two different colors too. Anyways sometimes I feel guilty for wearing the band before I get married. But I adore them together and it just makes my engagement ring pop. And I also already have a band my fianc茅 bought and I don鈥檛 really think they go together so I wanted your opinion. Thanks!!
Also do y鈥檃ll think it鈥檚 bad to wear my grandmothers now or wait?

First picture is grandmothers band (the gold one)
second picture is the band my fianc茅 got with my engagement ring.

Can i wear grandmothers band before my wedding? 1

Can i wear grandmothers band before my wedding? 2

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    You should do you! I personally love how my engagement ring & wedding band look together, but I waited until after we got married. It was hard to wait but it made it more special in my opinion.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    You can do whatever you want.
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  • Nemo
    VIP August 2018
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    Same here.

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  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle
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    I didn't wear my wedding ring til after but my husband wore his during aha. So I think whatever works for you. I think your rings look nice altogether !
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  • Hailey
    Savvy October 2019
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    I think if you like it wear it! Also are you trying to decide which one to use after getting married? What about both! That鈥檚 the 鈥渋n鈥 style right now is multiple bands and I think both would look cute! Either way they are beautiful!
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  • Jillian
    Savvy October 2020
    Jillian
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    Thank y鈥檃ll!! I just was curious which band y鈥檃ll liked better!
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD
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    I like the first band!

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  • VIP September 2019
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    I like you grandmother's ring best but I would say after your married wear both of them. Until then just wear your grandmother's
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  • Michaela
    Super May 2020
    Michaela
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    Yes I agree that your grandmother's ring looks the best! Are you going to use that ring as your wedding band? If so, then you really shouldn't wear it until after the wedding in my opinion. Just because of the symbolism of the wedding band. If you're just going to have grandma's ring as a ring (without the label) then totally wear it!

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  • Katelyn
    Devoted October 2020
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    You do you honey. Who cares if you wear it before the wedding?
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  • H
    Super September 2019
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    Do whatever you feel most comfortable with! I love both rings though and think they would all look so lovely together. Why don't you wear your grandmother's ring now and use the one your dh bought for your ceremony and then just keep all 3 for that beautiful stacked look.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Rockstar December 2019
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    I think it's fine to go ahead and wear your grandmother's band Smiley smile

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