Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Angela
Just Said Yes April 2017

Can I put invite only on my RSVP card?

Angela, on December 20, 2016 at 12:43 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 22

Hello, We are setting an age limit on our wedding as we are having a very large wedding with most families having children. We have posted this on our website, and intend to address the invites to only those invited, but we are concerned that some will still miss the message. We are also concerned...

Hello,

We are setting an age limit on our wedding as we are having a very large wedding with most families having children. We have posted this on our website, and intend to address the invites to only those invited, but we are concerned that some will still miss the message. We are also concerned that those who are not given a plus one will not realize this and bring a guest anyway, and we are already struggling with keeping our guest list manageable due to our large families. Is it rude to include "invite only" and/or "Please, no children under 16" on the RSVP card anywhere?

22 Comments

  • Private_User832
    Master August 2017
    Private_User832 ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I vote the wording others suggested earlier but I wouldn't cap it at 16. Typically it's 18 or 21

    • Reply
  • FutureMrsWhitman
    Expert December 2016
    FutureMrsWhitman ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I put the whole "__ seats have been reserved in your honor" thing and filled in the number. People were crossing off the number I put and putting their own number. Any way you do it, RSVPS will be a royal pain in the behind.

    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×


WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Rockstars

  • D
    Getting married in 07/03/2025

Groups

WeddingWire article topics